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| Author: | F-fresh [ Thu Nov 15, 2007 1:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Coffee Shop Curveball |
Hello again, PUAs. Now before I being I must apologize for the how juvenile this post must seem. It always bugs me when young guns post retarded questions about the smallest little details, however I once again, am in need of your help. I met this amazing girl out sarging thursday night. Things clicked, flawless transition between A1-A3, she number closed me. We had a real connection. Did a follow up phone call for some comfort building, again went well. Then I couldn't get ahold of her for severel days. Not wanting to sound like a phone stalker, I emailed her and told her "we should chill and do coffee." I like like 20 seconds for a coffee shop. Turns out she worked there and responded, "I used to work there, and had a huge falling out with the manager...but I soppose I "could" go. This is why I hate online talking, because you fail to pick up on hidden meanings and body language. Regardless, what do you think this means? Should I suggest a new location? Allow her to pick a place? Or display a dominate higher value while risking her being uncomfortable in that location? Thanks for your help. as always -Your Friendly Neighbourhood Fresh |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Thu Nov 15, 2007 5:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Pick Someplace Else |
Please pick someplace else. I don't think she's telling you a lie. I would pick another place so that she is more comfortable. She's going to be too focused on her old manager and not you if you go there. J SMOOTH |
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| Author: | sundevil [ Thu Nov 15, 2007 9:19 pm ] |
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pick another place... if she is uncomfortable; you wont be able to build attraction... but when u change the location... make is sound like ur doin her a favor. |
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| Author: | ace_of_spades [ Tue Nov 20, 2007 9:46 am ] |
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Pure gold you're getting here. Remember, her comfort comes first. No matter how dominant and alpha you are, things will get nowhere if there is no comfort. It is a problem I've had for a long time. I interpreted everything in terms of me displaying or not displaying dominant behaviour, and while A1 through 3 were always going swimmingly for me, I crashed and burned on closes. If any of you are interested in books on being alpha, read Carlos Xuma's secrets of the alpha male. Bit of a freakshow, but you'll find some good material there, it really changed my perspective. It's an entire book about something David De only has one sentence - the difference between dominance and domineering. |
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| Author: | Maya9 [ Tue Dec 04, 2007 5:06 am ] |
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Quote: pick another place... if she is uncomfortable; you wont be able to build attraction... but when u change the location... make is sound like ur doin her a favor.
Hello friend !I think you are saying write because it is really depend on the location and you should change the place and pick another place . |
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