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Author:  Mongala [ Wed Jun 22, 2011 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Need help on what to say back !?!?!?
So ive been doing the facebook thing a lot lately i go to shows alot and meet girls there alot, generally though on facebook it seems like a girl will never message a guy first, (For me at least?)

So ill message a girl i met or recognize from a show. Something like "Hey it was nice meeting you the other night" and she will message back seeming interested saying it was nice meeting me too and if she might possible see me again. Then either i don't know what to say back, or i say too much and seem too interested and they don't message back.

But today i just commented on someones status then this cute girl "Liked" it, so i added her, then she messaged me back immediately "Hi! :):) thanks for the add :):)"

Now my question is... What should i say back to keep her interested, since she obviously already seems it. This was on a post of an upcoming show in our area we will both be at.
Author:  xavilonia [ Wed Jun 22, 2011 8:56 pm ]
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You have to disqualify her before showing interest, that's why the others lost their interest in you.
Author:  Mercurial [ Wed Jun 22, 2011 9:40 pm ]
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You have to disqualify her before showing interest, that's why the others lost their interest in you
Man if your going to dish out advice like this to a new PUA on the forum at least give a example so he can make sense out of what your trying to get across, just saying "disqualify before showing interest" wont help at all.

As for the main question, Facebook isnt my favourite place to run game. There is no investment from the girl into the interaction, its just easy for her to talk to you without paying attention etc. Im sure you've got a few "friends" on facebook who pop up and start chatting to you, and you just reply with no intention of really ever getting involved with the convo.

Use facebook more as a way of staying in touch between meet ups rather then a place to find new targets. But if you want to start a convo and keep it flowing just use an opener? or perhaps bring up something about the show you guys were just at? build a routine stack just for FB that works and use it everytime
Author:  xavilonia [ Wed Jun 22, 2011 11:23 pm ]
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You have to disqualify her before showing interest, that's why the others lost their interest in you
Man if your going to dish out advice like this to a new PUA on the forum at least give a example so he can make sense out of what your trying to get across, just saying "disqualify before showing interest" wont help at all.
Fair enough. I found this one on the Jay Wa's tease routines:

What to say as a disqualifier:

(Note: Only use this when you cross the hook point.)

"Admit it, you like me!"- Her
"Yeah I like you...but I'm not IN like with you." - You
He has a lot of tips to k-close, open, posting on facebook walls, etc
Here's the link to his thread: 1-vt18584.html?postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0
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