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Author:  xavilonia [ Sat Jun 11, 2011 2:05 am ]
Post subject:  Having trouble
So I met this girl yesterday at a bus stop, she was going to a club and I was gonna meet some friends. She asked my phone to call a friend and then we started talking. I got fb close and I added her today. But when I talked to her on fb chat, it felt very wierd, so the conversation didn't go very well.
Any tips on how I can make up for the shitty conversation?
Peace, Xavi.
Author:  anthonypham [ Sat Jun 11, 2011 4:03 pm ]
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Although she gave her FB to you, still some comfort needs to be build.

At this moment, you are still someone funny she has met.

Ask her out to the same club, you with your friends and she should bring her friends. When you arrive at the club, let your friends game with her friends, and you isolate with her.
Author:  Flex007 [ Sat Jun 11, 2011 5:33 pm ]
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Next time you talk with her, just try and keep it fun and interesting, show interest in her, never let the conversion become boring or stale, and make sure you are always the one to end the conversation.

she probably will not want to meet up with you after your last talk, so try and catch her on facebook again.
Author:  xavilonia [ Sat Jun 11, 2011 7:31 pm ]
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ok i'll try that, but can you tell me some funny facebook openers? because I really suck at opening
Author:  Flex007 [ Sat Jun 11, 2011 8:05 pm ]
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Seems like you looking for a magic line, sorry but there isint any, lines are only as good as the person telling them.

Show interest in her life, ask questions, find out about her, at the same time be confident and playful, and be willing to end the talk at any time.

to avoid the friends zone, tell her she looks good, be direct show sexual interest in her,

if she asks about you, have somthing interesting to say, say your going to a party or somit like that.

you say your bad at opening, a great subject for the night game is relationship questions, for example I just broke up with someone but were still living together, so the question would be,is it ok to bring girls back? this sort of stuff works really well for opening, if its true even better.
Author:  ~LEVIATHAN~ [ Sat Jun 11, 2011 11:18 pm ]
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I have found that Mystery's "ESP Routine" is good for chat. (I will warn you that some girls get REALLY freaked out over that one though when if works just right... ;)

There is also an Alpahabet game that is fun... you start with a letter in the alphabet and take turns making sentences out of it... and you can make the conversation subtly smutty... ex... letter F... "For goodness sake ____ is sex all you ever think about, I'm not that kind of guy.." She will play along... believe me...

Ask her what her favorite color/animal/disney character she would be and then do a cold read... u can even look up info while chatting to improve your read...

Just keep it fun and light and interesting... but remember fb is not real life... you need to get w/ her in person... good luck... =)

Lovecraft...
Author:  xavilonia [ Sun Jun 12, 2011 2:28 pm ]
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Thank you all for the tips ;)
Author:  xavilonia [ Sun Jun 12, 2011 6:54 pm ]
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so I tried the esp, and actually got it right once, but she didn't really got impressed, and when I tried to find out about her she only gave short bitchy answers. What can I do now?
Author:  ~LEVIATHAN~ [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 2:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Forget about her...
Go find a new girl to play with... Freeze her out for a while and see how she responds... She may be a nice girl w a bitch shield - or she may just be a waste of your time... always keep ur options open so that ur not too attached to any one girl... =)

Lovecraft...
Author:  xavilonia [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 3:03 pm ]
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She liked in one of my FB photos, that's an IOI right? I'm already freezing her out while looking for another chick and thinking of new things to say. But I have this big problem: it's veru hard for me to think of things to say, my mind goes literally blank and I can't think of anything. Another problem is that I run out of things to say very soon, before the conversation develops properly, so it dies quickly. Any tips on these issues.
Thanks, Xavi
Author:  Drunk Romeo [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 8:32 pm ]
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I have the same problems as you do. Then i started reading into The Juggler method and i really like it a lot. The thing is with opening, it does not matter what you say. You may want to look into it a little bit. It's mainly about building rapport to get laid and it seems that right now, rapport is what you need. It is also great because there really are not any "routines". Routines are pretty much for people with a lack of confidence. They are to afraid to just try with their own words. Do not get me wrong i use them too...mainly because i lack confidence. But now that I am really trying to start making connections with people, talking to girls is much easier. I dont have a specific line for you but next time you do talk to her just tell her how you really feel. HAHA! jk dont ever do that. But seriously just tell her something you did that in all reality was really boring but make it sound funny as hell. If a girl asks like hey how was your day. Ill say something like. "it sucked, this morning i was brushing my teeth and i sneezed and toothpaste went everywhere. Im pretty sure there is still some in my nose." Girl: "Ha that sucks". Me:"No what sucks is i was peeing as i was brushing my teeth." 8) Yea it might sound lame but it works.

Good luck Man
Author:  xavilonia [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 8:59 pm ]
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Thanks for the tips man, I already downloaded The Juggler Method ;)
Peace, Xavi
Author:  sheps [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 9:45 pm ]
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can i suggest if you get a fb close you dont use fb chat, you should post on her wall something non threatening and general like

''hey when are you taking me out like you promised the other day'' (assuming you charged her a night out for using your phone etc..)

bu thats just a suggestion...
Author:  sheps [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 9:47 pm ]
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can i suggest if you get a fb close you dont use fb chat, you should post on her wall something non threatening and general like

''hey when are you taking me out like you promised the other day'' (assuming you charged her a night out for using your phone etc..)

bu thats just a suggestion...
Author:  xavilonia [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 12:00 am ]
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A little update on this case
I tried to make her give her opinion on something, but maybe I was stupid on the way I used. I'll put here the conversation.

Xavi: Are you a violent person?
HB7.5: I'm not a thug, but I like to impose respect xD, but why?
Xavi: Because of that case of the two girls beating the shit outta another girl (famous video published on FB here in Portugal), I wanted to know your opinion on that
HB7.5: But why that now? :S
Xavi: I dunno lol, but if you don't want to tell me your opinion, it's fine by me.

Then she told me her opinion, but the conversation was already dead, so I couldn't revive it. Did I fuck up or is she just a little bitch?

Peace, Xavi.
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