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Author:  school_boy [ Tue May 24, 2011 3:26 pm ]
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how do i over come this? what did u do? Im such a soft spoken person sometimes idk y. Its hard for me to communicate. Over the last month i have 5 numbers some of them was from school but they didnt lead to anything. How do i overcome my fear and become more sociable? what are steps I can take?
Author:  Evochild [ Tue May 24, 2011 6:38 pm ]
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Social awkwardness is a hard one to overcome. Unfortunately you just have to suck it up and go talk to people. Random people.

Talk to people in stores , they are paid to talk to you. Start small and then work you way up using the openers that you find here on the forum. You have to train yourself to be social!
Author:  Dabber [ Tue May 24, 2011 7:24 pm ]
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Walk around somewhere that's filled with girls. Smile and say "Hi" to each girl or set that passes you.

There was a similar post about AA not too long ago. The advice on that thread was to go to the mall. Ask every girl you see if there is a place that you can get tested for herpes around here, and then ask her on a date. Or ask a girl for directions but while doing so, NEVER make eye contact and only stare at her tits.
Author:  anthonypham [ Tue May 24, 2011 8:12 pm ]
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how do i over come this? what did u do? Im such a soft spoken person sometimes idk y. Its hard for me to communicate. Over the last month i have 5 numbers some of them was from school but they didnt lead to anything. How do i overcome my fear and become more sociable? what are steps I can take?
It is all about practice :)

When I go out, the first set is always tough. That's why i always screw up the first set. But after the first one, there will be a second set. Opening a second set is much easer. ANd so on... When I call it a night, and i opened sets (whether or not succesful) i go home satisfied.
Author:  Jon Paul [ Tue May 24, 2011 8:40 pm ]
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Literally talk to anyone about anything,

When I wanted to overcome shyness, i started small by ask for direction or the time and once you realise people wont bite your head off for saying hi, it will give you a confidence boost!
Author:  Adrino [ Wed May 25, 2011 4:50 pm ]
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Get a job as a door to door salesman. You will be a pro in no time.
Author:  school_boy [ Wed May 25, 2011 10:10 pm ]
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i got 2 numbers this asian girl who is a 10 and a cute white girl in my class from spring. i also talked to 2 other girls but didnt get chance to ask for # was nervous lol. SO when do i call? the jap girl? i heard its better to call n what do i say. any game i can run on her? the white girl im gonna go gym with her:)
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