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Author:  vaybebaybe [ Sat May 14, 2011 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:  The Timing of a Number Close
Hey,

Quick question,

In an interaction. When should I try to get their number if It's a fifteen minute convo for example?

I was basically trying to sarge this hot chick yesterday, and I had about fifteen mins to talk to her, and so I didn't know when to get her number and whether I'd built up the interaction well enough in order to do so. So I tried to get her number as I was leaving the train, because I would thought that that'd be the norm. But I got rejected she just said, she weren't comfortable giving her number to me and that there was a five year difference between the both of us.

Any help would be appreciated

Cheers

Vay

:)
Author:  kinorc [ Sat May 14, 2011 4:13 pm ]
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Its all about feeling bro...there r girls I meet n I know I can have them immediately, so I close quick so I can go get better ones. Sometimes I talk to a girl for a little bit, but something happens n im jot able to close...shit happens. When u feel that she is good, close her. Don't try towait til she is gonna leave to close, cause its like a last ditch effort. You ever see that episode of seinfeld where george leaves as soon as people laugh so he always leaves on a high not...its like that. Once you get your hooks in n see the puppy dog face, ur a win. Remember tho...numbers don't = shit more than ten digits. Number closes r fine n when u r starting that seems incredible, but what u really want r f-closes or at least k-closes u feel me? Im not interested in her number im interested in her, n if I don't get her, ill take her number. Get a bunxha numbers tho...im just saying that the number is never the objective fucking her is. So be trying to get there, n if u have to use a phone, fine...but u don't need to.
Author:  Infamous110 [ Sat May 14, 2011 9:14 pm ]
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Happens. It's better than getting a fake number.

Just 'okay, bye' and brush it off. At that stage there's nothing you can do. By leaving it until the end you've given yourself maximum chance to build up enough close points (pretty sure I just made that up).

It's clear she's not attracted enough or 5 years probably wouldn't matter. If she knows your age within 15 minutes that could be an issue. I would guess that you smalltalked. So perhaps you think of how to keep interaction going without fluff.
Author:  Mightyy [ Sun May 15, 2011 12:02 am ]
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hey man,
i just came back from number closing a HB7.
the thing is that there is no SPECIFIC time to number close, as soon as you feel that she is confortable, and giving you IOI's then its time.
so it depends on the situation and confort building, cz no HB would give her number to someone she's not confortable with. she dont want a bunch of guys or stalkers calling her now and then. so she'd reject, of fake number you.
moreover, it would be better if she'd sound like she wants you to have her number or she writes it down her self on her phone or a peace of paper.
Author:  Jack Jericho [ Mon May 16, 2011 4:02 am ]
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Probably some of the truest words I've ever heard spoken on here.
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...im just saying that the number is never the objective fucking her is
Author:  cspears01 [ Mon May 16, 2011 6:18 am ]
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sounds like you didnt neg and disqualify enough... i like to tell a story about a party or club i went too... just some type of DHV story... then i say something like "you seem cool enough... me and my friends are (going to a club having a party or something that sounds fun) and i guess you can come but if you arent cool then im gonna have to act like i dont know you(say that with a smile)" then give her your phone
Author:  dave1233345 [ Mon May 16, 2011 6:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Timing of a Number Close
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Hey,

Quick question,

In an interaction. When should I try to get their number if It's a fifteen minute convo for example?

I was basically trying to sarge this hot chick yesterday, and I had about fifteen mins to talk to her, and so I didn't know when to get her number and whether I'd built up the interaction well enough in order to do so. So I tried to get her number as I was leaving the train, because I would thought that that'd be the norm. But I got rejected she just said, she weren't comfortable giving her number to me and that there was a five year difference between the both of us.

Any help would be appreciated

Cheers

Vay

:)
you get 10 man points for asking, i ask for numbers at a emotional high. when your both laughing, or have found something in common or a ioi, asking before before goodbye is clunky, another thing that's important is not to run away after ya get the number, that leaves the interaction sour, happy gaming
Author:  Imar [ Mon May 16, 2011 8:23 pm ]
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What Dave said. If the interaction didn't go so well, why asking?
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