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| Author: | vicksh [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 4:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Opening a girl that i used to see |
Hey..2 year's ago when i was in 11th grad there was a girl in my college.i used to like her.There was also interest from her side.we would have eye contact.i wasn't into the game that time.i was total normal AFC.so i never got a nerve to approach her.Now we live in the same city but we are in different colleges.Now I usually see her in mall, in supermarket etc .So how should i open her as we know each other. but never talked.I think the Opinion openers will sound strange and seem fake or ungenuine.any ideas? Thanks |
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| Author: | xJokerz [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 6:13 pm ] |
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Hey dude. Only advice I can give you is to got to her and ask her about what she is doing right now. If she doesn´t know you can still talk about the old school how you looked and that you remid her from XYZ. If she knows you, you can talk about the same things. Just talk to her, show some DHV (you´re going to meet some friends in the mall/or wherever) and get the phonennumber. (Hey i think we should meet again. Just give me your number and I´ll give you a call) (I think the premade openers are only for people who are new to the game and need a phrase to open because otherwise they won´t be able to even open their mouth.) Hope I could help you. If you still got some questions PM me. |
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| Author: | Smouth [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 10:14 am ] |
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Its weird how we sometimes have more AA towards people we know, than people we dont. I think its that feeling of higher loss. Although technically you havent got anything as such, you may feel that if you approach isnt 100% succesfull she is going to have a worst impressions on you. This is just my assumption based on how i use to feel in similar situations. I would say just go for it. If the eye contacts is mutual then she might be thinking "hey thats the guy from my school, etc, etc why is he ignoring me?" Then she will mirror this aswell not wanting to invest even eye contact. Ever said hi to someone and they just walk straight past ya? most of the time next time you see them you wont say hi. This is what i am refering to. She will probably remmeber you as the 'you' from back then, show her how you have improved and become a confident, outgoing, alpha. Even if it goes terrible, i would suggest still opening everytime you see her. Even if its a quick time constraint and a 'what you up to now' before you end the convo. good luck |
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| Author: | Ap [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 1:58 pm ] |
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No to be a total tool or anything but allot of people think just because a girl looks at you they immediately think 1. I'm in with a chance! Just by eye contact your in with a chance no it doesn't work like that unless your Brad Pitt. My friend used to be as naive and always think just because someone looks at you there in, So I told him prove it and he went to this woman who apparently was eye fucking him which he new from collage and he got shot down brutally it was hilarious. 2. She's interested in me because she's looking at me, Like you said she could be curious to see if she knows you or not. What my point is here don't go up and approach her thinking that she likes you straight away unless she mentioned to you in collage, and if she has I'm sorry for ranting on about this but it's kind of an annoyance for me when people assume these things just from the way she's looking at you. But when or if you do go and approach her just be yourself and confidence and mention that you remember seeing her from school etc... ask her how she's doing now and if she would like to catch up some time. |
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| Author: | vicksh [ Wed Apr 13, 2011 3:26 pm ] |
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guys i appreciate your ideas. Hey Ab, i dont wanna approach her because i think she is interested.I understand the game.I haven't come into game yesterday! I am not assuming she is interested in me or whatever.I am just asking you guys how to open her.she wasn't in my class we were just in same school for 2 years.the only way we know each other is by eye contact, that is my point.. I just want to know how do i open her.I can handle the rest game.. If i do my normal opinion openers it will sound fake i guess.should i go for direct opener? Any ideas? Thnx |
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