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Author:  GoldDust [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 9:44 am ]
Post subject:  "I really have to go"

When I open a girl I get this response a lot saying that they need to be somewhere or their late for a meeting or whatever. How do I counter this because I don't no what to say and just end the interaction and let them get on there way.

Any ways to keep them around when they say this?

Author:  jabmaster [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 5:18 pm ]
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A simple model would be not react, mantain your frame and ask an open ended question (like you heard what she said, but still is not that important).

If what she is genuinely busy she will give a short answer, apologize again and inisist.
If ithat was an objection and you played your frame well you would have won a couple of extra minutes to play with her, make good use of them. (Sometimes you will have to rinse and repeat)

Author:  SofaKingDope [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 5:42 pm ]
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Hmm.. What about making it seem like you were the one that was running late. For example: Hey can I ask a question? I have to meet up with my friends, so it'll only take a few seconds. (Ask the question maybe something like "Do u know any good movies that are out? My friends and I cant decide on what to watch") n when shes done answering, take a step away from her, come back n say "While I have your attention, let me get your opinion on something, blah blah blah" talk over your shoulder like your about to leave. It's more comfortable and less direct.

This way she knows your going to leave so she doesn't have to make up an excuse for her to leave. I saw this on Youtube, and the over the shoulder technique I read from "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I've tried it once, and it was working, however I was too scared to number close. :(

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