MAGNETO-
I'm still new to the PU game but I do have natural player instincts that have served me well thus far. I can't recommend any literature but I'll give you my dance floor interpretations as someone who LOVES to dance (not saying I'm worth a shit but kind of
).Here's a few tips:
1) I never "cold" approach on a dance floor. It can totally ruin any social proof you've created with other girls.
2) Find a friend or a girl you're in comfort phase with, get out there and goof off a little. Don't be Kevin James from the movie "Hitch" but have fun.
3) Don't drink on the floor. Accidents happen and most of the time they're not your fault but you run the risk of serious DLV if you spill even a drop.
4) Most important, whether you're goofing off or seriously shaking your ass, KEEP A GOOD RHYTHM!
If you need advice on rhythm the only thing I can say is practice clapping your hands to the beat of different songs in your car (safety 1st of course). Some girls suck at dancing but most guys can't tell. What makes them suck is they have no rhythm. They're just out there showing off the goods and drawing in the flies. They will fuck up your dance moves because they're not with the beat. This is when I usually start clapping to the beat of the song. Only do this if you KNOW what the beat is. It will bring her back into sync with you, she will be taking your lead and she will feel that she better step up (no pun intended) or you're outta there.
When you're dancing with a friend, girls are social proofing you. After a couple of songs or after I've danced to a song that has switched me "on" (i.e. girls jump my shit when I dance to MJ's Thriller, it's funny and I keep good rhythm) I'll start working the dance floor. Leaning in to different groups with the "I'm still dancing with the other girl but I like your moves body language." Not sure how to describe that
. Basically I don't just bust in their circle. It's kind of like Mystery's take on approach BL but applied on a dance floor with no words and just dancing. Once you've created social proof on the dance floor you can pretty much dance with any girl for at least 30 sec. Some of them don't have as high energy as me so I feel they are intimidated b/c they can't keep up. So, keep that in mind. Watch her body language and don't hover. Bail if you notice they're not into it because you're just trying to have fun, right? Also, crowds are constantly changing on dance floors so its easy to loose your social proof. Stick to the groups that have been out there for a while watching you dance and avoid the newcomers unless you feel they were watching you from the bar or something.Every interaction on a dance floor is like condensed PU. All the same rules apply and the PU can be very fast paced. I'll try to just start listing stuff and giving examples of attraction phase since my reply has been all over the place.
Approach- I pretty much covered that. Same rules except you're using social proof and BL as your opener. As far as girls bumping into you; you should look at that in the same way you look at a girl wearing a short skirt or showing cleavage. They just simply want to be hit on. They're on the floor feeling sexy! They'll have more fun if they can reject guys left and right. However, they're impressed when guys can dance. Also, you can neg by waving your hands in front of your face, shaking your head, rolling your eyes, or even pointing and laughing (jokingly, don't want to kill her self esteem). Another good neg is when you finally open your BL to your target, dance for maybe 5-6 sec, put your hand up motioning her to stop, then do the pocket lint trick. This comes off as you couldn't stand dancing with her b/c that damn lint was sooo damn distracting. Now that it's gone you can get down.
F2M interest- DHV= your rhythm, C/F = goof off dancing, Push pull = turning away and then turning back in. If she starts looking you in the eyes or even at your face (where her face is square to your face) then take this as an IOI. If she starts grinding her ass on you, this is not necessarily an IOI! I know, its weird, but once agian they do this to feel sexy.
M2F interest- BAIT = break your beat, step back, raise your hands to shoulder height and mouth the words "Let's see what you've got!" Sometimes this works good if you have her hands when you raise yours up but let's assume there's no kino yet. HOOK = most girls will start doing a booty shake or some sort of stripper move where they bend over, touch their toes, stand up with their ass first then whip their hair around (that shit is really HOT but stay cool and don't start humping her leg yet) REEL = lean back, tilt your head, with a cocky grin on your face start nodding yes (think of your favorite rapper trying to look hard). Hold out your hands for her to grab them. When she takes your hands give her a sincere wink or your cute innocent grin and lightly squeeze her hands. 9 outta 10 times she'll squeeze back (IOI!). RELEASE = Keep her hands for a few seconds while you continue to dance then sort of throw them down. Usually they'll give you a shocked/confused look. If they're not shocked then you probably didn't do it hard enough. Just turn her around, grind for a sec, put your hands on her hips and push her forward as if you need your space. She'll get the picture this time. She'll stop dancing and turn to you with the "WTF?" look. Now, lean in and say "I wanna see that move again!" This time when she's done, get in her ear and say with a sexy voice "that shit was hot!" Now, its on brother. Just Don't fuck it up!
If anyone has any thoughts on dance floor comfort building I'd love to hear them. Usually at this point I'll isolate and run typical comfort building game.
Begin seduction during isolation then pull her back to the dance floor to finish seduction. Now she's in the mindset that the 2 of you are the only people in the place and shit can start getting DIRTY!
Feel free to PM me any field reports on this technique, good or bad.
-Engineer