cheers for the advice dude
will be putting it into practice
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| Author: | noir07 [ Wed Jan 19, 2011 9:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | approaching a table of girls at college? |
hi guys, so i was at college today and their was a table of about 8 girls in the cafeteria and i noticed one of them and wanted to approach but wasn't too sure how to go about it. i was thinking about going direct and trying to get her number but not sure. how would you guys go about it? any help is greatly appreciated. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Wed Jan 19, 2011 10:23 pm ] |
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Going direct on an 8 set to try #close 1 of them!!? Are you crazy!!? It would be the fastest blow out in history. It's slightly different if you've established solid EC with the target and she gave you AI's(approach invitations). Still,it'd be road bloccs. But to coldly approach an 8 set to try # closing your OYD(object of your desire)is suicide. This' why Im not a fan of direct game. You will have to go indirect,or at least warm up the group,etc. Then you'd have to isoate the target to pull off a # close. And she will not allow herself to be isolated if her friend doesnt approve of you,unless the target's the alpha female of the group. |
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| Author: | noir07 [ Wed Jan 19, 2011 10:37 pm ] |
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ooops forgot to mention she did give some ec but wasn't too sure how i would appraoch with so many people there lol, thanx for the advice |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:10 am ] |
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It's not a lost cause. Either you'd have to catch her alone where you can go(semi-)direct,or you'll need to get strategic and game the group some-what. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 12:29 am ] |
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Some more hope: Generally,when there's a large set(8 ppl),some ppl in that set would be having their own mino-convos[since they all cannot be listening to 1 thread]. So that group of 8 ppl would actually be broken down into 2-3 mini sets of 2 ppl. So instead of having to have to talk to 8 pppl,you may only need to chat with 2 or 3. Checc it out and observe it. A whole 8 set cannot interract without few of the ppl in it having chats of their own. I forgot what's the concept called but it's true. So instead of talking to the whole group(8),just picc out a splintered set. |
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| Author: | noir07 [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 10:24 am ] |
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cheers for the advice dude will be putting it into practice
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| Author: | Chin.Up [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 11:50 pm ] |
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Yeah when I often want to approach a certain girl she's always in a big group as well. What k-loc posted works great! |
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| Author: | bvanevery [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 1:07 pm ] |
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How about crashing the table, talking to your target briefly, but getting out before the structurally required bitch starts blocking you? Guerrilla war. Hit 'n' run. The purpose is not to finish the job then and there, the purpose is to establish interest with your target, and follow up somewhere better. 8 gals at a big round table may be in different conversations. *6* gals packed into a small booth style table at a bar are definitely all talking to each other. Very tough. There's always 1 structurally required bitch who will block you, you can't charm them all at once. Most I remember being able to charm at once was 4. After a number of suicide runs at tables of 6, I learned my lesson and sought safety in smaller numbers. |
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