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Author:  devi4nt [ Sat Jan 08, 2011 7:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Opening to hb sat next to me on train
When traveling home on the train it is often busy and as I get on early I usually manage to get a seat.

On 4 occasions now a hb has sat next to me.

Each time I have not managed to say anything.

Now I'm not great at opening but I can open when I want to; at bars, parties, in the street etc but for some reason I cant seem to think of anything to say when they are sat next to me other than the same crap every other guy has probably said to them such as "traveling far?".

Anyone have any advice or good example openers I can use for when this happens again?

Thanks
Author:  SCB [ Sat Jan 08, 2011 7:36 pm ]
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The same HB has sat next to 4 times, dude she WANTS to be opened, it's proximity, she's choosing to sit next to you.

Ok, 2 ways to go, depends how confortable you are with opening.

So she sit's next to you again "Wow, you must really love sitting here, next to me, Hi, I'm..."

or just say "Hi :)"

I once opened a girl (Admittingly a 6.5, ok 7 if I'm being genorous) on a train, she sat across from me and started reading a magazine, I noticed it was a womens magazine and on the cover it said something like "My husband destroyed my face with an Axe" (No joke :)) and I said to her

"Holy shit, who hit's people with Axes? Damn, domestic violence has changed!"

She actually looked up and laughed, we got to talking and I lead her into the "Incredible Connection" routine, started playing footsie under the table with her, number closed and a kiss (which I got due to Mystery's kiss gambit, I love that routine so much haha) as she got off the train a few stops before mine.

So it can be done. Good Luck :)
Author:  devi4nt [ Sat Jan 08, 2011 9:31 pm ]
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Hey

Thanks for the reply :)

Oops I should have made it a bit more clear ha sorry. It has been a different hb each time.

I do always think though that she has chosen to sit next to me when there are other spare seats so I must be some what inviting.

I mean they never get up to move either once the train has cleared a bit so maybe that is a sign that they don't NOT want to be sitting there ha. They could quite easily move if they wanted.

Thanks for the reply though and good work on the kiss close!
Author:  SCB [ Sat Jan 08, 2011 9:34 pm ]
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Thanks ;) I was impressed aswell, only tried it as a experiment to practice daygame :)

Ah, ok, then it's all about just making conversation with her, notice something about her, be it a magazine or a song she's listening to or the phone she has, just some commen ground to start you off with, makes it alot easier, hard but worth it haha
Author:  bigbuck [ Sun Jan 09, 2011 1:08 am ]
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easy, you can approach it one of 2 ways,

if you catch her looking at you, look back and say
either

"having one of those days?"

or

"you look sad/tired/etc, having one of those days? "

your assuming you know shes feeling X, shell see you as being intuitive , after she replies, say hi, my names bigbuck, i just finished wrestling a gorilla, so excuse me if im sweaty and have claw marks all over my arms and neck

etc, make her laugh
Author:  ArnyGunn [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 5:59 pm ]
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I wouldn't tell a girl I've never met that she looks tired. It's a put-down with no upside.
Author:  TwoFacer [ Mon Jan 10, 2011 11:18 pm ]
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I wouldn't tell a girl I've never met that she looks tired. It's a put-down with no upside.
I agree. If you're just the one to bring her up she will likely give you a hug, thank you, and then leave after the train ride.

You have to be interesting, without being a tool of entertainment to her, such as a television.
Author:  Woody94 [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:40 pm ]
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SCB mentioned in one of his experiences 'the "Incredible Connection" routine'
now im new and dont know what that it, could someone explain or give me a link to read up please?

also he mentioned, "number closed and a kiss (which I got due to Mystery's kiss gambit"
Now i dont know what this is either, so the same as the last thing, could someone please explain it or give me a link to read up on again.

Thanks
Author:  SCB [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:36 pm ]
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Read that, it's a guide I made the other day for newbues, the kiss gambit is in there.

The Ross Jeffries "Incredible Connection" routine is something I read in Mystery's book "The Pick Up Artist" in which Matador (another PUA) uses to pick up a stripper. I'll write it up on here later, google it, you will find it floating around somewhere, I love the routine as it creates attraction brilliantly.
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 3:19 am ]
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I number closed a few girls at the bus.

I always open with something situational, then I do some light teasing and talk about the places we're passing by, then I get their number and say we should do something some time (depends on the topic we talked about we might have something in common for a date).

If you're really struggling with opening you can try a ballsy one:
YOU: Excuse me, but are you shy?
Girl: No. Why?
YOU: I've been here for 5 minutes and you didn't say Hi. So, Hi... :)

or another funny one:
Pick your phone and pretend to have a heavy discussion on something like "who lies more? men or women?" then tease her accusing her as listening to your conversation, then say "it's ok... actually I need your opinion on this..." and proceed from there.

Improvise, Be creative. That's the artistry in PUA.
Author:  devi4nt [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 11:04 pm ]
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Thanks for all the replys guys.

Im probably going to be on a train on Friday so if I get the chance I think Im just going to go for it straight away.

What my problem is I dont open early enough and then I feel sort of awrkward like I have missed my moment.
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