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Author:  karlracki [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 7:36 am ]
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Here's the situation, I met this girl at work party. She was with 2 well known lesbians and I figured she was a lesbian as well by their interactions all night. I found out she is straight and single. I assumed she was a lesbian, I did neg her a few times all night and she was asking questions about me, vice versa. Not to mention that someone kept saying I was gay (jokingly) I tell her friend after she left and I found out she is single; I would have asked for her number if I knew she was straight and single. Her friend tells her, I'm interested and she said "I had a cute face", I give my number to her friend to give to her, the friend texts me and gives me her number. Her friend said "here is her number, she said to give it to u!"....she said "don't be crazy aggressive and she is interested in you (me)"

Now, I know she is interested, I did neg her a few times, etc. She does not have my number...What should I text her? I'm looking to date her, not a one nighter if that matters...I'm new to this. I was thinking "tag ur it"
Author:  Notavail226 [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 8:51 am ]
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Try making a funny comment about something you were talking about that night. leave a little mystery about who you are. don't give it away right away.
Author:  kilativ15 [ Fri Dec 17, 2010 11:59 pm ]
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Well mate, how long has it been since you this happened? More than a day or two & you blew it. The ideal time is the day after, to get her to remember all that lovely emotion and whatnot.

Now if you think you can salvage it try to evoke that feeling of interest again. Relate something back to the night, maybe make a joke and like a sociable adult ask her out
Author:  Notavail226 [ Sat Dec 18, 2010 7:24 pm ]
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Well mate, how long has it been since you this happened? More than a day or two & you blew it. The ideal time is the day after, to get her to remember all that lovely emotion and whatnot.

Now if you think you can salvage it try to evoke that feeling of interest again. Relate something back to the night, maybe make a joke and like a sociable adult ask her out
You said what i said ! you just made it sound better !
Author:  pharohZ [ Sat Dec 18, 2010 7:31 pm ]
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Hit her with something light and short. If you go more than a couple lines you might be pushing to far for your initial contact.

No 'tag ur it"
you want to make an impact, but a short one.
And don't beat around the bush, be bloody straight forward. text her:

"Hey, I was just thinking about you. What are you up to?"

and then proceed on from there on asking her out to coffee or tea, specific time and date in mind.

do not underestimate the value of the phrase "I was just thinking about you"
Author:  karlracki [ Sat Dec 18, 2010 8:05 pm ]
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Could I say "hey, it's the really good looking guy from the work party"?
Author:  pharohZ [ Sat Dec 18, 2010 8:08 pm ]
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LOL

I guess you could as long as she knows your poking fun, and pair it with the rest I gave you. That will probably work.
Author:  Notavail226 [ Sat Dec 18, 2010 8:25 pm ]
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NO ! Wrong ! Dude ! Lol, did you not read what i said about leaving some mystery. make her wonder who it is !
Author:  karlracki [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 12:28 am ]
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Got hammered!!!!!!! And I deserved it

She replied 3 hours later after the 2nd text (1st today, 1 yesterday)

"do you always speak so highly of yourself? And your first text to me is "tag ur it"...to me that's not much of good start"

Where do I go from here? I'm not going to reply right away...
Author:  Riskless1 [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 3:25 am ]
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That's a shit test man, an obvious one. Keep in mind that cocky funny does not work on text, you just come off as an asshole.

I'm no good on texts though, so good luck.
Author:  Notavail226 [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 3:43 am ]
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GOD DAMMIT ! R U READING WHAT I SAY !Well Now just say, Yeah i'm kind of the shit ;) And as for the start i thought that was as creative as it gets, what do you propose i should've said ? i'm no pro but the gold i'm giving you is better than the other things !
Author:  kilativ15 [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 11:44 am ]
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brandock, leaving it a mystery as to who you are is fecking stupid. If your in your late teens, then yes it might work. But later? Youl sound stalkish.
Author:  Notavail226 [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 12:13 pm ]
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You fucking dumbass, this is coming from much expirience and reading a lot of fucking books. i don't care how old you are i've prolly been doing this just as long. your a stupid if u think your not supposed to leave mystery. it gets the girl interested. i will have a sarge competition with you any day picking up the same aged chicks and i garauntee i'll win. who the hell are you to say mystery is a bad thing ! you dumb AFC !
Author:  Riskless1 [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 1:06 pm ]
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Wow man, way to totally miss the point of these forums. Do mods usually temp-ban people for posts like that?
Author:  TheFresh™ [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 4:00 pm ]
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That's a shit test man, an obvious one. Keep in mind that cocky funny does not work on text, you just come off as an asshole.

I'm no good on texts though, so good luck.
I agree it's a shit test and the Thread Starter shouldn't get too flustered over it...

Yeah, be very careful about trying to be funny in texting, because the situational irony revealed by body language and facial expression (i.e. big cocky smile) is absent here, especially to those who don't know you well. I once number closed a HB8-9 stripper over ten years younger than me, than proceeded to blow it by waiting too long (to "show her" I wasn't "too [over] interested"). I think she shit tested me for it, and then I wrote something that would have been taken as an ironic joke if she had known me better--but she didn't know me better and I probably came off as a typical 'customer' jerkoff to her...

In any case the fact that she's responding to the you (the TS) is a good thing...
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