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Author:  thinhman [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 3:35 am ]
Post subject:  How to approach a woman who is accompanied with her friend?
I see attractive women all the time on campus, and I would usually try something, but nowadays, most women are with their friend(s). I am completely lost when dealing with these types of situations.

For example, say there is a women on the campus field with her friend. They are sitting and just talking.
I'm attracted to one of them.
How would you handle this? I have no idea.

Btw, can you explain how to do it solo? I've yet to find a wingman, so I'm going to have to do it solo.
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 4:59 am ]
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I don't approach groups. One annoying problem is that attractive women are in groups more often than not.

If I was going to approach a group I would only do it if I could seperate the hot girl OR if I had a wing-man.

But you have nothing to lose by gaming a girl with a friend. If the a girl likes you enough she will give you her number. Groups of 2 are better than groups of 3 or more.
Author:  thinhman [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:03 am ]
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Some good news is that most of the women are in groups of 2. Some bad news is that MOST of the women are in groups of two. :/

I was hoping for more of a "how" to seperate. Like examples and such because I am lost when dealing with this. I wouldn't even know how to play the field when there's another girl sitting with my mark.
Author:  Haifisch [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 1:56 pm ]
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The Question is, whether it is Her Friend or just a Friend. I think as a result of your observation you should be able to tell waht kind of friend it is. If it is just a friend I would approach her if it is her Friend I would go and look for another Girl on campus.
Author:  Nayail [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 3:26 pm ]
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When you approach, don't single the one out your interested in, approach the group as a whole and address the whole group, thne you can work on singling out the target. Find some common interests, then escalate.
Author:  thinhman [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 6:35 pm ]
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Like, say I'm approaching 2 women, and I chat both of them up. It's near the time of departure. How would I get the target's number? Would I get both of their numbers?
Author:  Nayail [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 7:40 pm ]
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That depends, have you built any connection to either one? I personally never try to get a number unless I have a reason. Just having small talk with no common interest or connection, then trying to get a number is like saying "I like you, do you like me". Let's say ones name is Mary the other Jane. From talking to them you find that Mary likes the sports bar on 5th ave, the Luigia's pizzeria, etc. Jane likes to study at the library, take walks in the nice park by the river, etc. They both like the Comedy club.

Option 1 "Nice talking to you. Oh by the way, Mary I was thinking about hitting the bar on 5th sometime, give me your number and we'll hang out"

Option 2 "Nice talking to you, by the way, Jane, I like that park, haven't been much, give me your number and the next time I go maybe you can show me around"

Option 3 "I like that comedy club too, give me your number and we'll go one night"
with this one usually the girl who is interested will give you her number, or they both may.

If you can't come up with any connection, you say its on a campus, the odds are you will run into one of them again, just pik up where you left off.
Author:  seins345 [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 8:42 pm ]
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For lords sake just go and say to her friend:

"Hi i really like ur friend, could u give us 5 minutes?"

Then to the girl u like "Hi i think u are cute whats ur name"

Is it really that hard???

Stop thinking what will be the perfect dialogue
Author:  SameOldStory [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 10:07 pm ]
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I agree with seins345, just make your move without thinking, make your opener to that girl, don't build scenario to yourself, after all you never met her, you attracted to her look, the way she moves, whatever it is...

so just get to the girl group, talk to that girl you had seen, and I can guarantee you if you done the right move at the first minutes of meeting, and her friends will try to take her out to the dance floor she will stay with you..
Author:  Moreno [ Fri Dec 10, 2010 11:43 pm ]
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i agree to the direct ones above,u want to talk with her friend so,that's what ur looking for,u don't wanna be having a conversation with both of them,so u gotta make it clear
to them that that's what ur looking for,so go direct with something like this,

Hello,I noticed u sitting down together(or whatever they are or doing) and i had
to come meet ur friend cause she's incredibly cute(or whatever compliment u want)

and then u wait for her response,her saying thank u,if u give the compliment correctly
then she'll just say thank u, after that u ask for permission from her friend for u
2 to have a conversation like this :

"do u mind if i chat with ur friend for a couple of minutes?" and of course this is not
up to that girl,it's up to if the girl ur interested in wants to,so the other girl will
usually say "sure go ahead,if that's what she wants"

this way,u made it ok for her to leave her friend for a bit and talk with u,
this way,so she'll feel ok with having a walk with u,or sitting together a bit to the side

hope that helped :)
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 1:43 am ]
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Quote:
For lords sake just go and say to her friend:

"Hi i really like ur friend, could u give us 5 minutes?"

Then to the girl u like "Hi i think u are cute whats ur name"

Is it really that hard???

Stop thinking what will be the perfect dialogue
This can work too. It all depends on your confidence level and how much (or little) you care about failure.

If you want you can be bold and just focus on her while ignoring her friend. Its fattering to her and if you're game is good it won't really matter if her friend gets pissed off about it. Women drop friends for guys faster than you can drop a hot potato if we want to get serious hahaah.
Author:  Wildstyle [ Sat Dec 11, 2010 8:37 pm ]
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Observe them for a while!

If it seems they are engaged in a really serious conversation, don't even bother to approach them with a direct one...

However, my experience is that you can get away with a lot of bold approaches when women are accompanied by friends. I was clubbing with a friend a while ago and we saw a group of girls at a table. My friend just walked up to the group and told one of the girls that she looked really pretty and that she should buy him a drink. The rest of the group was looking like :shock: , but crazy enough they told the girl to buy him a drink and she did!
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