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Author:  thething9 [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 6:35 am ]
Post subject:  Plan of action for this girl?

There is a girl in two of my classes at college that I see every day. I think she likes me: for the past one month plus, she gives little smiles every time she sees me, and sometimes adds a little wave. She even tried a little small talk outside of class once. I don't see her doing this to anyone else. She is always with this girl friend of hers and more often than not two other male friends. I notice her in the lab portion of class catching my eye and smiling at a different table. Should I go over there and start sitting at her table? I am very quiet and shy by the way. Today I sat next to her in class for the first time and she said "How are you?" initially, but didn't say anything else to me the rest of the class, just talking to her friend. After class she was with her friend and she gave me a little smile as we crossed paths. She always does it discreetly so her friends don't notice. I need to hurry, there is only one full week left.

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Nov 30, 2010 11:28 am ]
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First off - plan of action for you

Go out and talk to 5 random strangers every day. They can be men or women, the check-out girl at the supermarket, the guy serving you your sandwich, whatever. Do it. Learn to just be social by smiling, asking people questions, telling them what's going on with your life, making a joke or two.

There is no magic line that is going to make a girl see your beautiful soul and instantly love you. If you cannot project your attractive qualities (which I'm sure you have) by conveying your identity with confidence, humour, intelligence, passion and articulateness, then she will not stick around to listen to you.

Plan of action for this situation - just fucking go up and talk to her. She obviously likes you, despite you being too much of a pussy to talk to her before. Maybe sit down next to her early on in the class, or catch her on her way out. Say hi, introduce yourself if she doesn't know you, and then instead of asking questions like "where are you from" say statements like "you're not from around here are you ;-)" Have a story or two of something funny that happened to you recently in you back pocket. If the conversation runs out, just be like "oh so the most random thing happened..." and launch into it. Be flirty and fun, don't be afraid to tease (NOT insult) her a little, lightly touch her on the arm when you're making a joke or emphasising a point (DON'T look at where you're touching) and then tell her it was fun and discuss a time to meet again to continue the conversation over a coffee/drink. Then get her number.

My 1 and Only Rule right now: DON'T BE A PUSSY.

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