STOP! lol do not!
u wanna become a great player? someone who can walk up to a girl without knowing wat to say and just happin to have a great smooth funny interaction?
then u must start blank. always be blank.
ur opener is "hi"
after that u have no idea wat to say.
it all depends on the response u get and the situation ur in.
the thing about game is that it needs to be fun. it needs to be more fun than sitting at home on ur computer playing starcraft, orelse thats exactly wat ull end up doing on a satarday night. and the way to make ur game a hassle and make it hard is by stacking all these openers and planning ur whole interaction out.
wat u dont understand is that the game is all about the long run. go out agen tonight and do exactly wat uve been doing. do it once, if u freeze run out of things to say, stand there look her in her eyes, smile and dont say nothing untill u think ov something. if they bail they bail. go to the next girl.
this thing might happin 15 times in one night. ok so u got no numbers, there was awkward silence everytime. hmm
do it agen the next night. and i promise u my friend. out of those 15 approaches u do the following night, at least 1 or 2 of those wont be awkward, ull think of something. and then the nxt night even less of ur interactions will be awkward.
soo now imagin after 12 months where u will be at. thats where im at, at the moment. i dont have openers. it makes it more fun, not knowing wat the interaction will be like.
i neva blank out because im soo experienced in chatting to girls i just met that we always end up talking about something funny and cool. and even the times when its silent, the girl can feel that im confortable and having a good time, that almost always she'll put in the effort to continue the convo.
but it all starts out where u are at the moment. dont stop doing what ur doing.
use ur openers as hi, wats up. or wateva u want and make every single interaction a new one.
ull be the smoothest player within 6 months i garrantee you.
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