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Author:  Chris_pua23 [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 10:03 pm ]
Post subject:  How to open in the streets ?
Hey,

I have a important question, never thought about this problem until today.

I have no problems with approaching and opening at the Night Game, also not at a Café or a Bar or something like that.
But I see no way to approach, if I walk through the street, and a really hot looking HB crosses my way.

So MPUA's what would you recommend ? or even did in the past in this situation ?
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 10:41 pm ]
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I usually ask for directions. Something like "Do you know a good sushi restaurant around here?"

You can even make it simplier and say: "Excuse me... I really like your style. I just had to say hi."

But Day game / Street game is a different animal than Night game / Bars and Clubs. You have to be more casual if you want success. I like using the directions approach and if she is friendly I'll say something like: "So are you from this area? You're really cute".
Author:  salad_fingers [ Sun Nov 28, 2010 6:45 pm ]
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I usually ask for directions. Something like "Do you know a good sushi restaurant around here?"

You can even make it simplier and say: "Excuse me... I really like your style. I just had to say hi."

But Day game / Street game is a different animal than Night game / Bars and Clubs. You have to be more casual if you want success. I like using the directions approach and if she is friendly I'll say something like: "So are you from this area? You're really cute".
Half I agree with but half not.

Asking for directions and such yes, but coming on too strong too soon with "you're really cute" is going to feel odd to her.

I recommend - ask for directions, try and think of some good mid-game banter and if it flows well then great or if not then no loss. Just another single serving friend for a beginner.
Author:  Roz [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 3:03 am ]
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This one guy came up and said this to me while I was waiting to cross the street:

"Oh, thank God you’re here! I find that if I cross the street with a girl, there’s less of a chance I’ll get run over..."

I found it funny... :lol:


-Roz
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 3:27 am ]
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I usually ask for directions. Something like "Do you know a good sushi restaurant around here?"

You can even make it simplier and say: "Excuse me... I really like your style. I just had to say hi."

But Day game / Street game is a different animal than Night game / Bars and Clubs. You have to be more casual if you want success. I like using the directions approach and if she is friendly I'll say something like: "So are you from this area? You're really cute".
Half I agree with but half not.

Asking for directions and such yes, but coming on too strong too soon with "you're really cute" is going to feel odd to her.

I recommend - ask for directions, try and think of some good mid-game banter and if it flows well then great or if not then no loss. Just another single serving friend for a beginner.
Yeah.. I actually agree with you. Sometimes its better not to comment on her looks at all. It really depends on the energy you are getting and the type of girl. But as a general rule: the more casual the better. Most women assume if a guy is talking to them he is attracted anyway. Once you get her number you can escalate things later.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 2:46 pm ]
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I usually ask for directions. Something like "Do you know a good sushi restaurant around here?"

You can even make it simplier and say: "Excuse me... I really like your style. I just had to say hi."

But Day game / Street game is a different animal than Night game / Bars and Clubs. You have to be more casual if you want success. I like using the directions approach and if she is friendly I'll say something like: "So are you from this area? You're really cute".
Half I agree with but half not.

Asking for directions and such yes, but coming on too strong too soon with "you're really cute" is going to feel odd to her.

I recommend - ask for directions, try and think of some good mid-game banter and if it flows well then great or if not then no loss. Just another single serving friend for a beginner.
Yeah.. I actually agree with you. Sometimes its better not to comment on her looks at all. It really depends on the energy you are getting and the type of girl. But as a general rule: the more casual the better. Most women assume if a guy is talking to them he is attracted anyway. Once you get her number you can escalate things later.
Stop being pussies, the lot of you.

"Hi, I don't wanna be weird, but I noticed you across the street and I think you're cute so I had to come over and say hi."

Boom, said with a smile, 99% of girls will be beaming at you, often quite stunned. Now, many of them will have a bf or whatever, but you're being clear and honest about your intentions whilst being confident, and that is very, very attractive.

As for transitioning, try doing a cold read, launching into a DHV story, or doing questions-as-statements [i.e. NOT "where are you from" = the WORST question to ask, but "you're not from around here...I can tell" / "lemme guess - Nigeria (when she's white and blonde)]

This WORKS. Trust me. I have field tested this.

I look like my avatar (oddly enough..). I'm 25 and I look about 17. I get IDed buying cigarettes. I am not Brad Pitt. I get results doing this.

TRY IT. YOUR PENIS WILL THANK YOU ;-)
Author:  jazz25 [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 4:10 pm ]
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open with something simple like..
Ayo nigga come here.

if the girl is black refrain from this opener and replace the word nigga with hoochie.

Happy sargin
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 4:46 pm ]
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I agree & dis-agree with PlayHerMan's appoach.

I love the directions opener-thats classic PU stuff.

But I disagree with the directness of saying she's cute.

Way too much interest too early to be complimenting a random stranger.

But to use the "asking for dirction,time,etc."...

You 1st have to get the girl to stop,or she'll just go straight by you.

Now there are many routines and ways to getting her to stop.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 5:00 pm ]
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@Roz-that's hillarious!!!

Im actually gonna write that down to memorize it-it's wickedly good(lol).

@SaladFingers-you basically said what I felt about being too direct is the wrong approach that early.

@BlondGuy-Lmao,you actually look like your avatar(lol)?That's cool man.

Im actually liking your style of PU BlondGuy.

I forgot which dating coach popularize that approach of,"you're not from around here".

I've used in few times.

The point isnt to guess correctly.

I usually purposely guess something outlandish.

If the girl's white,I'd say," Lemme guess where you're from,Jamaica?

Point is not to be accurate nor correct or the convo' will flop by her just saying,no,or yes Im from Russia.

But to purposely guess wrong,she will in most cases try to correct you,explain,ask why do you think she's from....

So BlondGuy,Im liking your approach.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 5:01 pm ]
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@Roz-that's hillarious!!!

Im actually gonna write that down to memorize it-it's wickedly good(lol).

@SaladFingers-you basically said what I felt about being too direct is the wrong approach that early.

@BlondGuy-Lmao,you actually look like your avatar(lol)?That's cool man.

Im actually liking your style of PU BlondGuy.

I forgot which dating coach popularize that approach of,"you're not from around here".

I've used in few times.

The point isnt to guess correctly.

I usually purposely guess something outlandish.

If the girl's white,I'd say," Lemme guess where you're from,Jamaica?

Point is not to be accurate nor correct or the convo' will flop by her just saying,no,or yes Im from Russia.

But to purposely guess wrong,she will in most cases try to correct you,explain,ask why do you think she's from....

So BlondGuy,Im liking your approach.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 5:01 pm ]
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@Roz-that's hillarious!!!

Im actually gonna write that down to memorize it-it's wickedly good(lol).

@SaladFingers-you basically said what I felt about being too direct is the wrong approach that early.

@BlondGuy-Lmao,you actually look like your avatar(lol)?That's cool man.

Im actually liking your style of PU BlondGuy.

I forgot which dating coach popularize that approach of,"you're not from around here".

I've used in few times.

The point isnt to guess correctly.

I usually purposely guess something outlandish.

If the girl's white,I'd say," Lemme guess where you're from,Jamaica?

Point is not to be accurate nor correct or the convo' will flop by her just saying,no,or yes Im from Russia.

But to purposely guess wrong,she will in most cases try to correct you,explain,ask why do you think she's from....

So BlondGuy,Im liking your approach.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 5:11 pm ]
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But I disagree with the directness of saying she's cute.

Way too much interest too early to be complimenting a random stranger.
Have you actually field tested asking directions vs going direct? If not, you are in no position from a purely theory-based perspective to make a judgement call about it.

Classic Mystery method indirect game was developed in high-end clubs where girls are used to being hit on by drunk guys calling them hot and staring at their tits. This is why doing the opposite of that, i.e. engaging them in a conversation and then just happening to notice that they're attractive later, can get you laid. (It can also get you 30 minutes into a set before they tell you they have a boyfriend or they're leaving to go meet their friends.)

During the DAY, women are not used to being hit on at all. It's incredibly rare for a random guy to talk to them at all, and if they do, it's probably something fucking boring like the guy serving them coffee talking about how cold it is outside. That's why going up to them and saying they look great, (with confidence and good body language and voice tonality, of course) is actually incredibly powerful. You're a man, you know what you like, and when you see it you fucking go get it. This no bullshit attitude WORKS. Now, many of the girls will be stunned, and you have to work on transitioning, escalating, and closing (just like in night game) but the opener itself gets you right into normal conversation. Some girls won't be interested, but you know what? You spent ONE MINUTE finding out whether she likes you or not, and you can move right on to another set (or just get her number and hang out as friends). You have NOTHING to lose. Even if she isn't interested (going to meet her bf, not in the mood, late, etc.) she'll mostly give you a smile and thank you for brightening up her day. What's not to love?

TRY IT!
Author:  Taffy [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 5:15 pm ]
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Aha it depends on your character. I find you can get away with ANYTHING if you already have a girl with you. Sort of a social preselection. You dont get so much of the 'who is this creep' look.

I actually successfully opened AND f-closed a girl within a week of knowing her, by opening her when she had a green day top on by walking over, pointing, being all hyper and basically shouting 'I love your boobs..... they have green day on them xDDDDD'

Having said that, the only other way I have ever really had to (or wanted to) open during the day iss when the girls have been with other guys (maybe it's their preselection?). I actually find opening them when they are with other guys is easiest. Just be rather high energy and open the guys. Yet again, if you have a girl with you it makes it 5746 times easier.

So long as the opener is congruent with your personality, and you are confident in the way you deliver it, you will be great. Also, even with day game, I strongly suggest breaking kino uber quick. You can skip ahead by hugging her straight away (ish). Anyway, I'm off to post a lay report.

xxx
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 5:54 pm ]
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You know what,I totally agree with you Blondguy;I was basing that on theory.

To be honest,I've never within 2 min.of opening a girl and tell her that she's cute.

But it really all boils down to the guy's attitude and reading the girl's attitude.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Mon Nov 29, 2010 6:06 pm ]
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You know what,I totally agree with you Blondguy;I was basing that on theory.

To be honest,I've never within 2 min.of opening a girl and tell her that she's cute.

But it really all boils down to the guy's attitude and reading the girl's attitude.

@Taffy-Lol,when you have the attitude you get far with anything.

This' 1 of my favorite-field tested ways I stop the moving target[Mcmaax,Toronto's dating coach uses this]:I literally take her hand as she's coming towards me.

This technique is not for AFC's nor guys who suffer from chronic anxiety.

As I spot the target walking towards me,I'd approach with an "I know you smile".

Lets say she has earpiece in(ipod whatever),I would pretend as though Im talking to her by moving my lips as she approaches,or if it seems weird,just talk as you approach her.

Then slower your pace as get closer to her,then take her fingers and keep talking with a smile and throw your opener.

The girl or anyone will naturally slower and wonder as they're being approched by someone smiling at them and talking to them.
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