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Dude, you don't just ask her out for dinner! Your basically saying "I want you" and it'll piss her off!
Talk to her on chat but don't do the whole stereotypical messenger conversation thing (hi, how are you?, wuu2? wubu2?) if shes hot she probably gets that from loads of guys every week, set yourself apart from the AFCs.
Go straight in with an opinion opener (e.g. jealous gf) and get her talking, don't show interest (asking her what she does ect...) and act really cocky (e.g. say "are you smiling? if not think of me) if she's interested she'll start asking you questions, just apply all the PUA stuff you know to private messaging.
Top Tip; Don't like or comment on her photos, it'll creep her out she thinks your sitting there clicking through them!
Rather than inviting her for dinner (which is basically saying "hi I'm, desperate, I want to try and seduce you) get her to come drinking with you and your friends (and maybe some of hers) then she'll feel more comfortable but make sure it seems like your letting her tag along rather than the whole night is centred around her presence.

If I'm honest it sounds like you have oneitus though so don't put all your eggs in one basket, chat to loads of girls and get good at flirting, if you start fantasising about a relationship her too much you'll creep her out, keep it casual.

Have fun!

Author:	palacim [ Fri Nov 05, 2010 8:36 pm ]
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Hi I met this new girl thru friends, at party, only met once at party for very short time, and talked online on facebook...asked her out for dinner but the said she is busy ( i know she is telling the truth and why she souldnt make it) she didnt reject the offer and we both decided to do it some other times instead...) i only have her on my facebook and dnt knw her well at all.still dont have her number ... i can wait and meet her again at friends or parties... or get in touch on facebok and ask her out for some other times? how do i take this forward ? should i stick to friendship and lets see what happens? should i push her? be straight to the point and ask her to meetup ? what should i Do/ and Dont? how should i take this forward? i dnt want to go too fast! already been told by girls that im to str8 to the point and they think im after sex lol i was told by one of the girls that she is freaked out by how fast this is going 1 lol she seems like a decent girl and i like to have relationship. PS: i know she is most likely to be out on the weekends and can join friends and meet her if I want to. but rather not to meet her in a busy night club.... Thanks

Author:	The Effect [ Sat Nov 06, 2010 1:53 pm ]
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Dude, you don't just ask her out for dinner! Your basically saying "I want you" and it'll piss her off! Talk to her on chat but don't do the whole stereotypical messenger conversation thing (hi, how are you?, wuu2? wubu2?) if shes hot she probably gets that from loads of guys every week, set yourself apart from the AFCs. Go straight in with an opinion opener (e.g. jealous gf) and get her talking, don't show interest (asking her what she does ect...) and act really cocky (e.g. say "are you smiling? if not think of me) if she's interested she'll start asking you questions, just apply all the PUA stuff you know to private messaging. Top Tip; Don't like or comment on her photos, it'll creep her out she thinks your sitting there clicking through them! Rather than inviting her for dinner (which is basically saying "hi I'm, desperate, I want to try and seduce you) get her to come drinking with you and your friends (and maybe some of hers) then she'll feel more comfortable but make sure it seems like your letting her tag along rather than the whole night is centred around her presence. If I'm honest it sounds like you have oneitus though so don't put all your eggs in one basket, chat to loads of girls and get good at flirting, if you start fantasising about a relationship her too much you'll creep her out, keep it casual. Have fun!

Author:	palacim [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 5:53 am ]
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Quote: Dude, you don't just ask her out for dinner! Your basically saying "I want you" and it'll piss her off! Talk to her on chat but don't do the whole stereotypical messenger conversation thing (hi, how are you?, wuu2? wubu2?) if shes hot she probably gets that from loads of guys every week, set yourself apart from the AFCs. Go straight in with an opinion opener (e.g. jealous gf) and get her talking, don't show interest (asking her what she does ect...) and act really cocky (e.g. say "are you smiling? if not think of me) if she's interested she'll start asking you questions, just apply all the PUA stuff you know to private messaging. Top Tip; Don't like or comment on her photos, it'll creep her out she thinks your sitting there clicking through them! Rather than inviting her for dinner (which is basically saying "hi I'm, desperate, I want to try and seduce you) get her to come drinking with you and your friends (and maybe some of hers) then she'll feel more comfortable but make sure it seems like your letting her tag along rather than the whole night is centred around her presence. If I'm honest it sounds like you have oneitus though so don't put all your eggs in one basket, chat to loads of girls and get good at flirting, if you start fantasising about a relationship her too much you'll creep her out, keep it casual. Have fun! thank you. what does AFC stand for? is there a list of cocky answers to most common question ( better if applies to online messaging).

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