I've learned so much about pickup from MPUA from this forum. I'm just trying to create my own style and approach by build upon the teaching of the sages. So while reading a book on psychology and influence, I put the pieces together into this. I'm going to try this out; before that, I'm going to share it and looking forward to any comments you guys have.
So, whole art of getting completely stranger to sleep with you can be summarized by one word: "compliance". If you can play the subtle psychological mind game that makes a girl to comply with your desire, you're in.
There are a few social concepts that most people always run on autopilot because we were taught that way. I'm going to summarize that here from reading the book:
1. Reciprocity.
2. Commitment + Consistency
So, lets open a lone HB with bitchshields up. So here is my go at the game:
First, approach your target with a napkin rose or any small gift. Remember that it must be a small physical gift; not a compliment. Give it to her. No matter what she says, insist that she takes that gift. With the gift, you first create an image of playfullness, romantic and even fun in order to create a good first impression. After she accepts the flower, she is indebted to you. So the social call for reciprocity will force her to be compliance with your next request. The next reason for a small gift is you provides her with an insignificant plaything. So, if she complies with you, all she'll be thinking later on that night when she's half naked on your bed is: " I must really like this guy" and not "OH MY GOD, I"M DOING THIS BECAUSE OF such and such." The key here is NEVER let her rationalize her actions. No rationalization no LMR. The sex will be wonderful if she thinks she is really into you
. So to quote the mighty sage, Stormy, from this forum, " This game is emotional. It is not logical."After the gift, just lean in, maintain eye contact, ask her: " would you like kiss me?" or any other questions that you like. Make it fun, Make it OUTRAGEOUS. Remember not to play it safe. The reason is you want to create a contrast with your next milder request that will open the door and let you closer to her.
So, if she shoots you down, just say, "Just kidding", smile then ask, "How about you buy me a drink?" Remember she's indebted to you, and social dogma stipulates that she must repay in kindness. Moreover, compared to kissing a complete stranger, a drink is inconsequential and will not raise any ASD. Once she agrees, you're in because now there is a precedence of compliance that she will have to commit in order to be consistent with herself.
Kino + Escallate like crazy here.
So after she agrees to buy you a drink, start to play games with her to create rapport, entertain her slightly, push-and-pull. Again, remember to make her feel like she's indebted to you.
In order to get her into bed with you, I think the most important game to play is: hand writting analysis. Psychologically, when you are committed on paper, in black and white, your perception is completely altered. So, insist in a funny cocky way that she writes what YOU tell her to write. Some of them may be:
1. "I'm going to kiss you."
2. "I like (insert your name here)."
3. "(insert your name here) is sexy."
4. "I want sex now!!!"........
If it's not successful with this girl, rember the old addage: "Monkey see, monkey do." Other girls see that girl buy you a drink, see that she laughs with you. Social proof will make you more approachable to other HB's.
Happy Hunting,