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| Author: | PlayHer Man [ Tue Oct 19, 2010 11:56 pm ] |
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This is an odd discovery.. but I found that using the word "ma'am" when first opening a random girl makes it easier to be more aggressive afterwards. I think when you say "Ma'am" you DHV by showing you have some level of social status (class) and you are respectful to women (not a creep). I'm surprised at how quickly I get a womans full attention when I say "Ma'am!" instead of "Hey!" or "Nice boots!" I don't know.. I have only tried this TODAY so its not really "tried and true". What do you guys think? |
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| Author: | Oneslyfoxx [ Wed Oct 20, 2010 3:54 am ] |
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Idk ma'am makes me feel like i'm talking to an old one. It seems out of place and if you've gamed cougars like me... then you definitely want to stay away from that! lol I go with "miss" instead. |
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| Author: | BlackTrax [ Wed Oct 20, 2010 4:46 am ] |
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When I think "Ma'am", I think older, authoritative figures... I don't know if this strategy would work on just anyone...maybe on older women, because it is somewhat "expected", but that's a tough one.. |
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| Author: | SilverAndBlack [ Wed Oct 20, 2010 7:12 am ] |
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I'm pretty damn polite when im not sargin, and I call all non-targets "ma'am" or "miss" and always use "excuse me" or "pardon me". But if I'm gaming, I stay away from the polite stuff. I find its more effective to cast yourself as a non-suitor by using more C&F type stuff, because when you act polite like that, its can actually lower your value. Showing yourself as a non-suitor while simultaniously lowering your value has the potential to be a game ending combo. Just my 2 cents |
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| Author: | PlayHer Man [ Wed Oct 20, 2010 11:24 pm ] |
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Thanks for the feedback guys. I agree with all of you.. while I get their attention with "ma'am" I find that I don't close well with it. Only one girl gave up her number and she didn't respond when I texted her. I'm going to scrap this approach. |
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| Author: | Vernon [ Wed Oct 20, 2010 11:27 pm ] |
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I've found that when opening to a younger girl and you call her ma'am its a neg and attractive move on your part. Usually when I've called girls ma'am (which I do because its how I was brought up) they go do I look like a ma'am to you (insinuating that they aren't old enough to be called ma'am) and you respond, I'm sorry I was just saying it out of respect. DHV bitches!!! |
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| Author: | PlayHer Man [ Thu Oct 21, 2010 12:26 am ] |
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Quote: I've found that when opening to a younger girl and you call her ma'am its a neg and attractive move on your part. Usually when I've called girls ma'am (which I do because its how I was brought up) they go do I look like a ma'am to you (insinuating that they aren't old enough to be called ma'am) and you respond, I'm sorry I was just saying it out of respect. DHV bitches!!!
Haha.. well thats the mindset I had going into it. I guess its all about attitude and confidence as always. You can say anything if you say it right. |
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| Author: | jazz25 [ Fri Oct 29, 2010 2:17 am ] |
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which normal guy says ma'am? Unless your talking to an 80 year old woman, id avoid it... Its not a DHV it shows your not socially aware and probably a hill billy |
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| Author: | slickezt [ Sat Oct 30, 2010 2:11 am ] |
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Yea i think Miss works a lot better |
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