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Author:  R3D [ Sun Oct 17, 2010 6:35 am ]
Post subject:  Gameing introverts
Most of the tactics or strategies work on girls that are more outward, what about gaming introverted girls? Anyone have any pointers?

For example coming in with a higher energy level and being really exciting, won't net you a girl that is introverted.....


Anyone have any ideas?
Author:  SilverAndBlack [ Sun Oct 17, 2010 7:14 am ]
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Well, the rule of thumb is have your energy level slightly higher than the target. If she is so introverted that you cannot acheive this without being boring yourself, than I would reccomend not negging or going overboard on the DHV, and just mostly build rapport at first. After enough rapport, and she seems comfortable, switch back to your method that you normally use immediatly after the open. Of course she may dig you after the rapport and you can move straight to the seduction phase. If you do switch back to your normal routine though, just make the transition very smooth so she's not wondering why you were Mr. nice guy at first and now acting all C&F.
Just my reccomendation, theres probably alot of ways to go about this.
Author:  sheybutter [ Sun Oct 31, 2010 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Gameing introverts
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Most of the tactics or strategies work on girls that are more outward, what about gaming introverted girls? Anyone have any pointers?

For example coming in with a higher energy level and being really exciting, won't net you a girl that is introverted.....


Anyone have any ideas?
OP, I also have the same question.

What's up with introverted chicks? Especially ones that are really cute (but probably don't display confidence in their cuteness)?

Usually, HBs would know they're the shit and walk around like they're God's angels, right?
Author:  R3D [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 6:18 am ]
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need more answers!
Author:  Grand Master [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 9:54 am ]
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Ask open ended questions. Get her to talk as much as possible. Make her feel totally understood but at the same time don't become her emotional dustbin. If you can do this then your job is half done. Once she starts to open up then you can game her like any other girl. Trust me once these shy and introvert girls get that little push and start talking they don't want to stop!! So be prepared for it :)
Author:  R3D [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 6:53 pm ]
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so asking alot about her? Not really talking about yourself that much? Exploring her? Am I on the right track?
Author:  Grand Master [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 5:18 am ]
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so asking alot about her? Not really talking about yourself that much? Exploring her? Am I on the right track?
Talk about yourself only when she wants to know. After she has shared a lot about herself, she will want to hear about you out of reciprocity. She will listen to you with a lot more interest when she asks for it. But don't keep asking questions one after another like an interview. It should sound like a normal conversation. While you are at it just keep escalating and you will go a long way.
Author:  Shyler [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 10:04 am ]
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But that's the point: introverted girls do not talk much about themselfs, let alone in general.

For example:

Me: Do you have a hobby or a thing where you are realy passionate about?
Introverted chick: Uuuhhmm ... I don't know :oops:
Me: you don't know? C'mon, you got this look in your face, you're a dreamer I know that there's something you realy enjoy doing
Introverted chick: uhm ... maybe horseback riding
Me: ... ?
Introverted chick: ...
Me: So how do you feel when riding horseback?
introverted chick: uuhhm I don't know :oops:
Me: ... -__-
Me: okay I'm going back to my friends, have a great night

I had a lot of conversations like this in my life. How you deal with that? Almost impossible.
Author:  ajaxluka [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 12:02 pm ]
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I believe hobbies or school or work for that matter aren't the things girls will want to talk about when they're going out.

Tell her you saw an ad on travelling which made you go to the travelling agency to get a brochure and even though you know you don't have the time to go, it's always been a dream of yours to travel the world and see different people and countries. Ask her if she can relate or if there's a similar thing in her life she's always wanted to do.

This way you'll end up having an interesting conversation without being her emotional dustbin.
Author:  fenixz [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 12:29 pm ]
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Do introverted girls want more compliments or they just don't give a fuck about you? The problem with introverts is you don't know if they are the type that will never shut up once they are comfortable with you, or they never talk much because of low self esteem. I need advice too!
Author:  Grand Master [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 7:06 pm ]
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But that's the point: introverted girls do not talk much about themselfs, let alone in general.

For example:

Me: Do you have a hobby or a thing where you are realy passionate about?
Introverted chick: Uuuhhmm ... I don't know :oops:
Me: you don't know? C'mon, you got this look in your face, you're a dreamer I know that there's something you realy enjoy doing
Introverted chick: uhm ... maybe horseback riding
Me: ... ?
Introverted chick: ...
Me: So how do you feel when riding horseback?
introverted chick: uuhhm I don't know :oops:
Me: ... -__-
Me: okay I'm going back to my friends, have a great night

I had a lot of conversations like this in my life. How you deal with that? Almost impossible.
Agreed. There may be some girls like that too. But here, I was talking about cases which are not that hopeless :D
Author:  Serial Killer [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 11:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Gameing introverts
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Most of the tactics or strategies work on girls that are more outward, what about gaming introverted girls? Anyone have any pointers?

For example coming in with a higher energy level and being really exciting, won't net you a girl that is introverted.....


Anyone have any ideas?
I don't really think this is necessarily correct. The only difference I would say with these kinds of introverted and shy girls is that you will have to be prepared to talk a lot. Maybe you are right though with some of the more aggressive approaches, they don't really work best on these types of girls.

It is difficult to flirt with them though, as they don't really play the game
Author:  R3D [ Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:46 am ]
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bump I think we are getting some where
Author:  Datguy [ Sat Dec 18, 2010 9:37 pm ]
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Been there too, and it sucks because it feels like i'm the one that might be doing something wrong. Then i just realize that's how the girl is, i ask her different kinds of questions, not just about herself but open topics, and i keep getting the same: "well......uhhhh, i don't know"
Author:  brary [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 2:42 am ]
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less talking, and more looking. Introverts seem boring, but have a very rich inner life. What do i mean by this? talking to her won't do much for you except seem like another person to her (unless you have great social proof and her friends push her to hookup with you, and the indecisive person she is...she will be like ok i guess he's kinda attractive). Make her blush with your looks and your eyes, but at the same time display confidence. Introverts react more to subtle queues ( you would think that they wouldn't..but what do you think they're thinking about when they're quiet all the time?).

Wrap up: use your eyes, your seductive looks, body language, and stealthily touch her if she's sitting next to you or something. Be confident in overall.

Experience: im an introvert myself, and loud girls are way too easy cuz they don't think enough. I can say whatever i want and they'll take it, whereas the introverts don't pay much attention to socializing
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