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Author:  zacharie101 [ Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:20 am ]
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Its hard for me to gain a good social circle since I dont live on campus, so how would u recommend gaming in college?

has anyone had any success at doing cold approach on campus?

Author:  SAF12 [ Fri Oct 08, 2010 3:54 pm ]
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Two Links: One I wrote on opening and one I wrote a while back on college in general. The only thing left is day closing which requires a legitimate excuse (partying and studying is always good just remember not to be too direct about it). Hope this helps.

a-note-on-college-game-vt56844.html?highlight=

college-openers-vt76239.html?highlight=[/url]

Author:  zacharie101 [ Sat Oct 09, 2010 2:30 am ]
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Two Links: One I wrote on opening and one I wrote a while back on college in general. The only thing left is day closing which requires a legitimate excuse (partying and studying is always good just remember not to be too direct about it). Hope this helps.

a-note-on-college-game-vt56844.html?highlight=

college-openers-vt76239.html?highlight=[/url]
Thanks I wished I had money for room and board and will attempt to get a dorm real soon

Should I practice at the mall and bookstore in my area first before doing any gaming on campus?

Im at least trying to join clubs to meet some people

Author:  boogalada [ Sat Oct 09, 2010 6:06 am ]
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Hi.

Today I had an immense success at cold approach.

She was laying on the grass.

Hot girls studying or laying (but especially just laying) on the grass actually enjoy being approached by average guys. Try it. I mean shit, they're asking for it.

Author:  zacharie101 [ Sat Oct 09, 2010 10:34 pm ]
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Hi.

Today I had an immense success at cold approach.

She was laying on the grass.

Hot girls studying or laying (but especially just laying) on the grass actually enjoy being approached by average guys. Try it. I mean shit, they're asking for it.
What did u use as your opener?

Author:  boogalada [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 1:09 am ]
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Now I will tell you the whole long story.

Yesterday I was depressed over being a virgin and my hot ex having broken up with me months ago and just straight up stressed etc. So I said "today i'm going to go out and hit on girls and get some numbers." I'd never done anything like it in my life. So I went out but i was a pussy as usual and didn't hit on any girls.

Then I saw some people playing ultimate frisbee and asked if I could join. They said I could if I found a partner.

So I went around asking random people laying on the field if they wanted to play ultimate frisbee. Of course they all said no. Including this one really cute Australian chick. Since my goal was to hit on girls in the first place I walked towards her and kept persuading her to go, "don't be lazy" etc. then I just knelt down next to her and we started talking about random stuff like her class. She did the quiet voice thing so I leaned in closer. I probably should have kino'd at this point but the only "kino" i ever did was pick up some grass and touch it to her skin, because I am a n00b.

At the end we vaguely implied that I should take her to parkour club some day so I awkwardly said "Can I have your number?" and at first she said it's pointless or some weird excuse but then changed her mind to yes.

My first number close of my life. More to come. Hope that helps.

I would imagine if I did any grass approaches in the future it'd be more among the lines of "what are you reading" or "why are you lazying around when you should be having fun"

Author:  zacharie101 [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 2:41 am ]
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Now I will tell you the whole long story.

Yesterday I was depressed over being a virgin and my hot ex having broken up with me months ago and just straight up stressed etc. So I said "today i'm going to go out and hit on girls and get some numbers." I'd never done anything like it in my life. So I went out but i was a pussy as usual and didn't hit on any girls.

Then I saw some people playing ultimate frisbee and asked if I could join. They said I could if I found a partner.

So I went around asking random people laying on the field if they wanted to play ultimate frisbee. Of course they all said no. Including this one really cute Australian chick. Since my goal was to hit on girls in the first place I walked towards her and kept persuading her to go, "don't be lazy" etc. then I just knelt down next to her and we started talking about random stuff like her class. She did the quiet voice thing so I leaned in closer. I probably should have kino'd at this point but the only "kino" i ever did was pick up some grass and touch it to her skin, because I am a n00b.

At the end we vaguely implied that I should take her to parkour club some day so I awkwardly said "Can I have your number?" and at first she said it's pointless or some weird excuse but then changed her mind to yes.

My first number close of my life. More to come. Hope that helps.

I would imagine if I did any grass approaches in the future it'd be more among the lines of "what are you reading" or "why are you lazying around when you should be having fun"
What college u go to?

Author:  boogalada [ Mon Oct 11, 2010 6:25 am ]
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UC Berkeley. It should not matter what college you go to as long as it's big enough. For example, UC Berkeley is infamous for being overwhelmingly Asian. Yet, that doesn't mean there aren't cute Australian girls lying around in the grass. The important thing is that the university is large enough.

However, I am afraid I have some bad news to share. The phone # turned out to be fake. It was a Mexican guy. You can read my post under "field reports" if you are interested in knowing/analyzing all the details of our conversation.

Author:  SOUL_FIGHTER [ Wed Oct 13, 2010 4:42 pm ]
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Fuck, college is the best time to meet girls

I felt more confident than anytime back in college. There are gonna be all sorts of girls on campus - girls who'll ignore you, girls who'll be offended that you're talking to then, and best of all girls who'll LOVE the fact that you're talking to

My favorite spots back in college were the computer lab and library. You got friends on campus? Hit up some parties. I've never been the kinda guy to go to parties JUST to meet girls, but some of the best girls I've met were at parties.

Meet girls, get facebook closes, eventually you'll prolly meet in person

Author:  zacharie101 [ Thu Oct 14, 2010 1:34 am ]
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Fuck, college is the best time to meet girls

I felt more confident than anytime back in college. There are gonna be all sorts of girls on campus - girls who'll ignore you, girls who'll be offended that you're talking to then, and best of all girls who'll LOVE the fact that you're talking to

My favorite spots back in college were the computer lab and library. You got friends on campus? Hit up some parties. I've never been the kinda guy to go to parties JUST to meet girls, but some of the best girls I've met were at parties.

Meet girls, get facebook closes, eventually you'll prolly meet in person

so basically social circle and all that stuff doesnt matter as much as I thought?

Conquer your campus book cause me to think social circle was the only way

Author:  SOUL_FIGHTER [ Thu Oct 14, 2010 3:53 am ]
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A social circle is good so you have people to party with
I think when dudes go to parties alone to meet girls, it's obvious and usually unsuccessful (for me at least)
My social circle was mixed company - all races, both genders, and people who knew how to have a good time. Makes more people willing to join you guys.
However, all the girls I've met and hung out with were outside that social circle - the girls who come to your friend's party alone or with 2/3 friends and are friends of friends of friends of your party or just showed up because they heard about the party

Looking back, my social circle grew from classes. Most of my friends were from my Japanese class, I met the guy who eventually became my roommate from my Risk management class, and those friends of those friends eventually expanded.

Meet some people you share interest with. But I don't think formalizing it is a way to have fun.

Author:  zacharie101 [ Fri Oct 15, 2010 3:29 am ]
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A social circle is good so you have people to party with
I think when dudes go to parties alone to meet girls, it's obvious and usually unsuccessful (for me at least)
My social circle was mixed company - all races, both genders, and people who knew how to have a good time. Makes more people willing to join you guys.
However, all the girls I've met and hung out with were outside that social circle - the girls who come to your friend's party alone or with 2/3 friends and are friends of friends of friends of your party or just showed up because they heard about the party

Looking back, my social circle grew from classes. Most of my friends were from my Japanese class, I met the guy who eventually became my roommate from my Risk management class, and those friends of those friends eventually expanded.

Meet some people you share interest with. But I don't think formalizing it is a way to have fun.
Should I cold approach on campus or not?

and if so what would be some good openers?

Author:  SOUL_FIGHTER [ Fri Oct 15, 2010 4:28 am ]
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If you have a big campus like I did (36,000 - Temple University), then cold open
Otherwise, be careful because then word will get around

My favorite opening, I made a thread about:
Girl passes by
"Hey! Howve you been? Katie, right?" That's my ice breaker
From then on, I improv'd

Author:  zacharie101 [ Sat Oct 16, 2010 12:36 am ]
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If you have a big campus like I did (36,000 - Temple University), then cold open
Otherwise, be careful because then word will get around

My favorite opening, I made a thread about:
Girl passes by
"Hey! Howve you been? Katie, right?" That's my ice breaker
From then on, I improv'd
Is it harder to game girls in college or out of college?

I think it would be easier out of college since alot of there lives become boring and then a fun exciting pua brings fun into their life.

Was it hard setting up dates after cold approaching the girls in college?

Author:  SOUL_FIGHTER [ Sun Oct 17, 2010 1:38 am ]
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If you're a Freshman/Sophomore, it might be hard. For me, I noticed girls dated guys older Junior year+, usually grad students, or recent graduates. First few days of Freshman year are easy because some girls become sluts. I think 3-weeks, the girls with high school boyfriends finally break up and they're fair game. Then you repeat with Freshmen girls)

Junior year onward, it was a joke. Sooo easy to game girls. Senior year? Forget it. Almost effortless, all years are pretty much open.

Personally, I think gaming in college is easier than gaming out of college. I'm 23, I graduated 1.5 years ago - I have almost no confidence opening girls out of college because they prolly make more money than me ( :( ) and are probably dating 30+ year old dudes. This is why I avoid girls my age and stick to the 18-20 year old college girl range.

Scheduling a date after a cold opener easy. I meet the girl at parties, (or now online), so I meet them in person in a neutral location - or bring them out with my friends (not inviting their friends - fuck that).

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