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Author:  jacman02 [ Sun Sep 26, 2010 12:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Long Story. Help please post openers too

1. is approaching multiply women on a dance floor the way to go? i hate dancing and iam really bad at it, im just awkard but is this the only place to meet em? i just mean that the big groups of women on the dance floor are like asking for a guy.

2. So this chick came over this week and before i read this i had no game didnt do shit. last night everyone was going to the club and i knew she was going while we were waiting in line (she was VIP) i wasnt. Me and my friend picked up these 2 chicks and we went to the back and paid 20 bucks to get it. The other chick i really want saw us. good thing?

3. what do you do when the chick says "i know where this is going, and i have a bf". i was doing so good with this girl in the club but she said that and all i said was ok thats cool and just laid if off a little. less kino but lOl's were there. if she was drinking maybe?

4. i know this is lame but what are some good openers.

5. o and me and that same guy went up to these 2 chicks on the dance floor and we thought we were in but went for some kino and got "pushed" like she said no no no no were good were good. like wtf. all i did was like brush past them. what did that mean?

Author:  ZeroValley [ Sun Sep 26, 2010 4:50 pm ]
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1. There is no 'the way to go'. There are hundreds (~) of ways and all of them work. Approaching multiple women on a dance floor is a way to meet girls. Though keep in mind, think of you gaming a girl, and then take away any kind of verbal game. That's what you're left with. So you're going to need good body language, facial expressions, physical contact, etcetera. Make sure you engage the entire group (blocking you on a dance floor is pie for an obstacle), and make sure you're not lowering the 'fun'. If you want more specific info on this you should make a separate thread. (Or find an existing one).

2. Yes, most likely a good thing. (and nicely done if I may add.)
3. This is an extremely common and basic problem, search the forum / internet you'll get giant threads on this. (Easiest thing to do is ignore it and keep gaming, she'll accept and go with you or reject you HARD, meaning she really has a boyfriend AND isn't going to cheat. If the latter, -> next girl.)

4. Talk loud, talk slow, talk expressive (If you just talk slow, but not expressive that'll blow you out in a matter of seconds.).
Verbal Direct: Hi [pause] You girls look interesting, so I thought I'd come introduce myself.
Verbal Indirect: Any of the million opinion openers / or something situational.

Though if you want to do more dance floor, it's great to do physical openers like taking or motioning for her hand and spinning her. This works well because it screens out the girls that aren't interested, and immediately gets some compliance and a fun interaction with those who are interested.

EDIT: You don't really have to be a good dancer by the way. Just use your arms (above your waist), move on the rhythm, and you're fine. If it looks like you're enjoying yourself it'll probably be fine.

5. If you really want a good answer, you should be more specific about the situation. Personally, I'm not going to try and give advice that'll be completely off because I'm basing it on a misunderstood situation.

-ZeroValley

Author:  jacman02 [ Sun Sep 26, 2010 6:28 pm ]
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thanks ill try that stuff

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