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Author:  Magic-J [ Fri Sep 17, 2010 9:40 pm ]
Post subject:  This may change the way you think about approaching...
This is the music video to the song 'What if' by Jason Derulo (link at the bottom of the page). You probably might be thinking 'Where is this twat going with this?', but I just want all of you to take a close look and interpret what is going on in the video, along with the lyrics of the song.

What I interpreted is that, if you don't approach a desirable girl, you could in fact have lost your future wife. Something as simple as saying 'I can't do it' or 'She's out of my league' could prevent you from changing your life dramatically whether it would be increasing your social circle, getting the confidence to approach again or in this video, miss out on 'THE ONE'.

'What if... What if I approached that cute girl in the park...'

I would love you all to reply with your thoughts, whether you agree or disagree.

Peace,

Magic-J

What if - Jason Derulo ---> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4qQCx9mxV9g&ob=av2e
Author:  sman [ Fri Sep 17, 2010 10:43 pm ]
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While great in theory or sounds awesome logically, it's not how humans act.

If the fear of rejection is bigger than "meeting potential wife" then people will not approach. You either have to be in emotional fitness, such that the intensity of will pwer or courage is stronger than the fear in order to approach.

You can read more about it in my inner game article - http://www.puacottage.com/48/what-is-inner-game

s-man
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com
Author:  Magic-J [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 4:29 pm ]
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Hey,

I totally agree with what you are saying, but I think you have missed the point slightly. Even though in reality, people do not approach because their fear is bigger than their desire to approach; I'm posting this to allow people in the future to think about approaching in a deeper sense. If they do think about this before going out, it may give people a bit more incentive to approach. I'm not saying this is the magic pill to conquering approach anxiety, but I do think this will help give a little push to approach. After coming across this video, I have had more of an urge to approach simply because I think that I could be missing out on a potential best friend/wife/girlfriend etc if I do not approach.

Any more thoughts, please reply. I like to be open minded to other people's opinions :)

Peace
Author:  Paul??? [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 12:31 pm ]
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Meet this girl once, K closed.

What ever you do, dont make the mistake off accidentally writing the wrong number on her arm, think about her every day :( Why dont i get a music video : ( : (
Author:  sman [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 1:12 pm ]
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Magic, of course. The more you think of something the stronger you will feel about it. This is what happens with approach anxiety, people are so focused about it that it only makes is stronger. This is why it's better thinking productive things.

I have actually conducted a 6 Fatal Mistakes Guys Do That Increase Approach Anxiety. Make sure to check it at www.puacottage.com . This covers some of the major pitfalls regarding AA and more importantly how to get yourself to a state in which you can approach whoever you want.

cheers!
s-man
Author:  GrifterUK [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 2:29 pm ]
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I agree with Magic J. The best way to look at things is you could have everything to gain in this one approach, so why not go for it. The worst thing that could happen is you dont do well. Yeah you might blow it with a girl who is potentially your future wife, but then again every set you approach there is gunna be at least one potential future wife.

Good clip to broaden the metaphor dude!



GriffterUK
Author:  Magic-J [ Thu Sep 23, 2010 6:14 pm ]
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Thanks for the replies guys! really appreciated!

sman. I'll have a look at your link. Thanks for that

I suppose I should understand we are all different and what works for me wouldn't necessarily work for someone else.

Peace
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