at a club people go to socialize, pick up, get picked up etc. so hence there is just a big room with people in it.....
people don't go to malls to get picked up or hit on..
keep that in mind... because you dont want to be standing there talking to these girls for 20 mins and then try and kiss her.. its very difficult to do this outside of a club...
just be quick
1 open
2 transition (into some random topic)
3 build attraction (be funny interesting)
4 close and bounce
in your example if you had the right body language... u shoulda number closed easy.
1 does this scarf look good on me
2 im going to a cross dressing party tonight whatchu think
3 body language is key... look her in the eye "this is so you, this ring.. try it... wait.. this doesnt mean im gonna marry you ok"
4 "look youre really kewl and your friend is......blonde. uhm.. *SMILE* i gotta bounce though, I seriously thought this was rocky mountain chocolate factory...wrong store, go figure. but you seem friendly and i want to talk to you again *hand phone* (have it open to notepad app already) gimme ur email address.... while shes typing it ask her if she uses msn... if she says yes.. say "oh. i dont...put ur num there too then and ill txt ya"
if she says no "then put your number too blah blah."
say have a nice day and bounce... (no high fiving your friends afterward)
also guage how reluctant she is to give you the email.. if it was just bam here you go. then go for num but if shes like "ehhhh... ok i guess" then dont ask for num and send her a really clever-witty email that ends with
PS: the kewl kids use phones and texting nowadays...reply with your cell so we can come into this century.... otherwise thers gonna be a pigeon with a note in your window for my next msg..(im not kidding)..
