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Author:  zacharie101 [ Wed Sep 08, 2010 11:52 pm ]
Post subject:  How to open a girl

how can I open a girl in my college club? and create attraction?

there's this spanish girl in a club that I joined in college, how can I create attraction? she is always with her friend

I dont have to get her, I can at least become friends with her I just dont want the semester to end and we haven't talked at all.

Author:  jazz25 [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 6:00 am ]
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Hello.
Comment about the lecturer something funny.
How do you two know each other? (to her and her friends)
hey im going to this cool party on saturday/i know this cool place/I have to go now but ill grab ur number and we can study sometime.
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Author:  levo [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 8:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to open a girl

Quote:
how can I open a girl in my college club? and create attraction?

there's this spanish girl in a club that I joined in college, how can I create attraction? she is always with her friend

I dont have to get her, I can at least become friends with her I just dont want the semester to end and we haven't talked at all.

'i'v seen u around btw im x , pleasured knowing u since ur cute face is popping every now and then " after doing this remember to smile

Author:  sman [ Fri Sep 10, 2010 9:58 pm ]
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I find it easier to approach group of girls than a single girl because if I run out of things to say or interaction is about to die then you can use the second girl to make it alive again.

I would just come to them and say "There is something I gotta tell you guys.. you are the cutest couple I've seen in campus" (assumptive frame is them being a couple). This is a great place to start teasing about that. Like, "Did you guys meet at match.com"? 'Who's the man in the relationship?" if you make it playful it may work.

Check also for doing on them the best friends test. Simple way to start kino during the day.

If you know cold reading then it can also help when conversation dies out..

Then like always, qualify and take the number from the girl you like or both of them.

I have no idea at which level is your game. When done properly it's good to qualify and do SOI (statement of intent) for the girl you like so that she knows you want her as a man wants a woman.

s-man,
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com

Author:  zacharie101 [ Sat Sep 11, 2010 6:23 am ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
I find it easier to approach group of girls than a single girl because if I run out of things to say or interaction is about to die then you can use the second girl to make it alive again.

I would just come to them and say "There is something I gotta tell you guys.. you are the cutest couple I've seen in campus" (assumptive frame is them being a couple). This is a great place to start teasing about that. Like, "Did you guys meet at match.com"? 'Who's the man in the relationship?" if you make it playful it may work.

Check also for doing on them the best friends test. Simple way to start kino during the day.

If you know cold reading then it can also help when conversation dies out..

Then like always, qualify and take the number from the girl you like or both of them.

I have no idea at which level is your game. When done properly it's good to qualify and do SOI (statement of intent) for the girl you like so that she knows you want her as a man wants a woman.

s-man,
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com
should u even be doing cold approaches on campus?

alot of people been talking about social dynamics but im a commuter so its hard to have lots of friends

Author:  sman [ Sat Sep 11, 2010 9:26 am ]
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Yes & No. It all depends on level of your game, level of confidence and more. If you are only practicing this stuff then you may weird out girls & people which will make you look as the WEIRD guy. You gonna be stuck with them for few years, so you don't wanna weird with them.

I think it's better being extra friendly, greeting people that you don't know and slowly build massive social proof. Practice your game outside campus. You can always game girls that are "just" friends with you once you get the skill sets.

If I were you I'd search for social circle / campus game / social proof based game. I think that Entropy got some and so does Adam Lyons.

If you learn to become more funny, easy going and have great hobbies then people will like spending time with you and you will be more attractive in general.

s-man
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com

Author:  tdavid88 [ Sat Sep 11, 2010 7:37 pm ]
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Hi, just sit near her and talk with her about anything you have in the moment.
then apply the tools for attraction. It`s so easy man, just do it!

Author:  zacharie101 [ Sat Sep 11, 2010 8:55 pm ]
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Quote:
Yes & No. It all depends on level of your game, level of confidence and more. If you are only practicing this stuff then you may weird out girls & people which will make you look as the WEIRD guy. You gonna be stuck with them for few years, so you don't wanna weird with them.

I think it's better being extra friendly, greeting people that you don't know and slowly build massive social proof. Practice your game outside campus. You can always game girls that are "just" friends with you once you get the skill sets.

If I were you I'd search for social circle / campus game / social proof based game. I think that Entropy got some and so does Adam Lyons.

If you learn to become more funny, easy going and have great hobbies then people will like spending time with you and you will be more attractive in general.

s-man
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com

I realized my afc ways and stopped them thats basically my level of game, I never done a cold approach in my life so I guess I shouldnt be practicing on campus

since im a commuter cold approaches are basically all I have and not alot of social proof.

How would u transition the opener on campus?
How would u game inside the library since everyone is being quiet?

Author:  zacharie101 [ Sat Sep 11, 2010 8:57 pm ]
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Quote:
Hi, just sit near her and talk with her about anything you have in the moment.
then apply the tools for attraction. It`s so easy man, just do it!
to be direct or indirect with the openers on campus?

Author:  sman [ Sat Sep 11, 2010 9:05 pm ]
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I would be friendly and social. Greet people. Have small talks.

Practice cold approaches in the mall or elsewhere. Don't become the weird guy. People will remember you and you may experience social proof. Don't go there.

Just learn teasing and micro calibration. It's mostly gonna be social circle game.

Once talking with a woman, you can tease her, tease sexualy, do kino, have push & pull dynamics.. Don't get much into cold approaches.

Best is situational stuff, in my opinion. Very indirect. This case even if you mess up, then there is the plausible denial-ability on whether you were hitting on the girl or not.

Example,

1.she's walking with books.
you" oh my god! you are so strong for carrying this many books. you should be my personal trainer in the gym"

2.She's walking with huge bag
you "jeeeez.. your bag is enormous.. i think you can put a whole elephant inside and it will be lost inside."

This is also known as projection.

part of game is knowing to take the stuff she says and make them more funny and calibrated..

enjoy!

s-man
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com

Author:  zacharie101 [ Sun Sep 12, 2010 12:40 am ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
I would be friendly and social. Greet people. Have small talks.

Practice cold approaches in the mall or elsewhere. Don't become the weird guy. People will remember you and you may experience social proof. Don't go there.

Just learn teasing and micro calibration. It's mostly gonna be social circle game.

Once talking with a woman, you can tease her, tease sexualy, do kino, have push & pull dynamics.. Don't get much into cold approaches.

Best is situational stuff, in my opinion. Very indirect. This case even if you mess up, then there is the plausible denial-ability on whether you were hitting on the girl or not.

Example,

1.she's walking with books.
you" oh my god! you are so strong for carrying this many books. you should be my personal trainer in the gym"

2.She's walking with huge bag
you "jeeeez.. your bag is enormous.. i think you can put a whole elephant inside and it will be lost inside."

This is also known as projection.

part of game is knowing to take the stuff she says and make them more funny and calibrated..

enjoy!

s-man
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com
I seen an HB8 reading waiting 4 class outside on a bench, I was afraid to open since i dont know what to use

how would u have opened her?

Author:  sman [ Sun Sep 12, 2010 8:36 am ]
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I could answer you but I don't want to reinforce my style on you. I'm very cocky & funny, confident and sexual. I have pretty nice improvisation abilities as well.

My style is direct teasing. Because I'm teasing it balances my interest with disinterest. Which calibrate the fact I'm direct.

There has a lot to the delivery and tonality. Even if I write you something you will not understand how to do it with mischevious,mysterious and evil clown tonality.

For example, you could say "hi"
sit down
say - " I know you are reading but I had to warn you.." (pause for 1-2 seconds)
"do you know what happened to some girls.. just like you.. who were sitting and reading" (look at her and pause for 2 seconds)

say - "they became models.. and now they walk with the books on their head"

it's purely improv on the spot, you could also say "they became the geekiest.. (pause) cheerleaders!"

the point is the subcommunicate fun, emotional talk, mystery, touching on her attraction switches, spiking buying temperature

if you are a beginner you could just use an opinion opener that hooks. for example, "do you think its ok to date the best friend of your x-gf?"

Sinn in his day-game course has got great ways to say the opinion openers so that it sounds normal and it baits the girl into conversation.

s-man
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com

Author:  zacharie101 [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 4:44 am ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
I could answer you but I don't want to reinforce my style on you. I'm very cocky & funny, confident and sexual. I have pretty nice improvisation abilities as well.

My style is direct teasing. Because I'm teasing it balances my interest with disinterest. Which calibrate the fact I'm direct.

There has a lot to the delivery and tonality. Even if I write you something you will not understand how to do it with mischevious,mysterious and evil clown tonality.

For example, you could say "hi"
sit down
say - " I know you are reading but I had to warn you.." (pause for 1-2 seconds)
"do you know what happened to some girls.. just like you.. who were sitting and reading" (look at her and pause for 2 seconds)

say - "they became models.. and now they walk with the books on their head"

it's purely improv on the spot, you could also say "they became the geekiest.. (pause) cheerleaders!"

the point is the subcommunicate fun, emotional talk, mystery, touching on her attraction switches, spiking buying temperature

if you are a beginner you could just use an opinion opener that hooks. for example, "do you think its ok to date the best friend of your x-gf?"

Sinn in his day-game course has got great ways to say the opinion openers so that it sounds normal and it baits the girl into conversation.

s-man
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com

how would u even neg a girl? since in the back of my mind if the neg goes wrong I still may see her around campus

Author:  sman [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 7:58 am ]
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i don't neg. i can be edgy and asshole but i don't neg.

s-man,
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com

Author:  zacharie101 [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 10:00 pm ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
i don't neg. i can be edgy and asshole but i don't neg.

s-man,
PuaCottage - www.puacottage.com
How do u deal with those confusing girls, the very friendly outgoing girls?

these are the girls I most attracted to but they send mixed signals, you dont know if they are really interested or they are just being their friendly self

this happened to me today with an HB8 who I made conversation with

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