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Author:  A_Border_Bandit [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 1:07 am ]
Post subject:  How to approach a HB that is in a hurry?
What is the best way of intercepting a HB who is in a hurry?

You know the type; she's late for work and half running to make the bus or to get to a meeting... She's unable to hang around long enough for you to lay down your best lines...

What do you do?
Author:  thatsgreat2345 [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 2:07 am ]
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Well if she is walking it means she is going somewhere and it probably isn't far, so just kind of follow her, don't stalk her but wait until she stops somewhere most likely her work and then go in and she is stationary at that point. Else unless you have something extremely important to say and something so catchy, she probably won't stop.
Author:  THE_GHOST [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 2:12 am ]
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This is a really difficult one. I have the same thought of go in her direction. I live in SF. There are lots of stop lights and intersections which are great places to open up but if the girl is in a hurry to get someplace important odds are you arent gonna get much out of the interaction except for the possibility of bumping into her again.
Author:  A_Border_Bandit [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:07 am ]
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Thanks guys.

Waiting until she has been held up crossing the street would work, I suppose. But say, my work is in a different direction and I don't want to be late either, have you guys any techniques for getting her to chase you?

I was thinking of trying something with an old wallet. I'd fill it with an old ID, coupon cards and other worthless junk and accidently drop it in on the street or leave it behind in the coffee shop right in her line of sight. She couldn't not see it and if she has any conscience at all she'd catch up with me to give it to me. Even at worst, she didn't chase me, losing the wallet wouldn't bother me as it was just a prop anyway.

Do you think that would work?[/u]
Author:  thatsgreat2345 [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 4:10 pm ]
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You'd have to time the drop perfectly, and not make it look like you did it on purpose. Chances are she might just point it out to you or something or pick it up and hand it to you so yeah she would stop but not for long. And then you could work your game. But don't expect her to chase you all the way to your work, or she may not notice, or don't expect her to find it and then call the person in it, just don't count on too much but your best bet is a small conversation.
This may have to be a multi-day thing, lose the wallet and talk to her, the next day do some more, so on and so forth since it seems like you see this girl every day.
Author:  Shyler [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 4:58 pm ]
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Opening girls in a hurry is extremely difficult. If you are realy good at pick up maybe it might work but even then chances aren't realy big.
If you are talking about day game then I would prefer sarging in shopping mals, shops, sea sides etc, because people are less in a hurry then.
Maybe you might see it as a challenge, but my philosophy is why making it so difficult if there are many other girls who are way more approachable?
Author:  A_Border_Bandit [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:51 pm ]
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I see your point Shyler and I agree that is an easier option. However, I seem to find myself in this rat race type situation every morning and getting good at it seems imperative to me!

I'll keep y'all posted on any progress! :)

- Bandit
Author:  Sbreezy [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 10:42 pm ]
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ok following girls is the worst thing you can do, remember approaches have to be spontanues, girls can feel you watching them. and you will creep them out(bad)

just go say a neg (push/pull) based on something she is doin/wearing, false time contraint will help but not required.
lean back and make her stop and come to you. talk loud if she is walking away. but do not move towards her once you start talking. !Lead!
:twisted:

p.s if she is in a hurry she could be sweating/sweaty.. so work off that as a neg.
8)
Author:  A_Border_Bandit [ Wed Sep 08, 2010 2:27 pm ]
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I've spoke to a few targets on the street although it hasn't proved very fruitful. I get a lot of polite replies but I don't get number closes. I don't think it's worth it. I'm not bothered to be honest! Thanks for all your help :)
Author:  Mind Hacker [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 2:13 am ]
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If she's in a hurry go direct:
"Hi! I saw you and I had to come here and meet you. My name is ---".

Do a big qualification hoop and number close fast.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 3:09 am ]
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I virtully agree with everyone's concept except for Mind Hacker's.

Fast # close,are you serious Mind Hacker?

That chicc would never answer her phone.

Problem with fast # closes(that 95% of guys do)is that the girl hasnt been attracted in that short pace of time.

You have to sufficiently attract a girl in order to get a solid & real # close.

Fake #'s are the product of guys rushing to # close.

Anyway,on approach:

I remember watching the 1st.season of VH1's PUA with Mystery.

1 of his #1 rule when approaching "moving targets",is that you have to pace them by walking slightly ahead of them,then slower your pace to hers and you open over the shoulder.

If your opener is BS,well,she wont give you the time of day.

If she does engage you when you throw your opener from her side(while still walking),you should slow down a lot to eventually stopping then loccing her in.

In order to slow her down,you just start walking slower then grab her hand to stop her while both of yall talking.

Only do that(the hand grab to slow her down)if the opener hook her.
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