I got approached by a really beautiful girl this saturday. She has high social value, I'm sure, but so have I in that particular place I believe. Anyways, I had a tad too much to drink, so I think I might have overdone the whole high value thing, and perhaps not smiling to the extent I should have. She studies writing, and I asked her what she wrote about - it was romance. I couldn't help myself and started asking questions like, isn't that a tad cliche? "you´d better be a great writer if you are to do anything in that genra as it is one of the most written about subjects in the world" " you should show me some of it one day, though" etc. or something similar.. Anyways, she continued that she wrote of lost love - as that was what she had most experience with. Not sure at the exact exchange, but as mentioned, I think I overdid my "I don't give a damn about you" attitude, or/and perhaps smiled way too little. I think I blowed her out. She ended up going back to her friends at least, and seemed somewhat troubled. Shame I can't remember the exact details of her bodylanguage, my comments or her replies, so I can't be sure wether I screwed up major, minor or perhaps not at all. First time I have been on this side of the fence though, perhaps being the douchebag.. and being it to the prettiest girl at that place. Anyways, any way I can salvage this next time I see her?
Seeing that I am not sure to the extent I might or might not have hurt her, how should I follow up?
If it is unsalvagable, so be it, but I would really want to get on good terms with her as she is one of the apha females of the particular group of woman I will be pursuing the next months.
Should one generally avoid negging, or being too "up there" when being approached? Even if the girl approaching you is of high value?
Damn, I'm afraid I'm turning into a douchbag, not only to woman, but to most people. Strange, seeing I'm usually a really a nice guy in every respect. This portraying a high value, having ultra high confidence thingy can really backfire.. but I don't think that my next move should be to apologize??
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