Hi all,
Firstly, this is my first Post here, so a big hello to everyone, the forum looks like it has some great advice and tips
I've been out twice in the last two weeks in Bars, and been using some openers.
Last night in particular with several ladies I approached I am experiencing some difficulties.
I approach the lady, smiling and usually sticking to the 3-second rule (otherwise i find it difficult to approach anxiety etc). Anyways, I run my opener which is fine (opinion-based opener) and usually get here to respond, without her feeling threatened or so forth.
Once running the opener I try to transition, ask if she’s from the area so fourth, ask how she met her friends etc. But the problem I am experiencing is as follows.
1. Some girls, (usually the very attractive girls) once giving their opinion on the opener, I find it very difficult to transition and continue the conversation - you can tell from their body language that they do not seem interested to continue the conversation.
2. Or, last night in particular on many occasions, I can transition..and half way through building conversation the girl 'loses' interest and says she needs to get back to her friends - even though I used the false-time constraint.
3. Even though it seems rather doom & gloom for me at the mo I have used the above a few times two-weeks back and managed to be successful and getting some phone numbers - even though nothing great materialised from the telephone number.
I appreciate this is a long post, but any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated. Look forward to hearing from you guys
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