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| Author: | Kyng [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 5:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Opening well - but what's next? |
The last couple of weeks, I've challenged myself to start a conversation and hold it for at least a minute with at least 10 cute girls that I would otherwise have been intimidated by. It's gone well, I've gotten a lot of smiles and generally got friendly responses. Usually I just sort of start talking to people in line at the store, or at the mall, the beer cart girl at the golf course, etc. But generally the conversation goes well, then sort of peters out, and ends when we both go on to continue our day. Some of these girls have been particularly cute, and I want to know what's next and how I transition these brief, though pleasant meetings, into getting a number, another conversation, or something else? I seem to be hitting a little bit of a wall and don't know how or what to do to transition beyond small talk. Thanks, Kyng |
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| Author: | Silentman [ Sun Aug 01, 2010 10:36 pm ] |
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Ima get flamed for using MM but remember the FMAC? Find-->Meet-->Attract-->Close You should figure out your own game for the attract part. You can neg than introduce yourself than DHV story, find what works for you. |
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| Author: | Kyng [ Mon Aug 02, 2010 1:06 pm ] |
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Is MM out of favor? |
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| Author: | AFC Smooth [ Mon Aug 02, 2010 6:31 pm ] |
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I wouldn't say MM is out of favor, but just be careful using some of the very canned stuff such as "did you see the fight outside" etc. If you have a good opener, I would use that to get a laugh or two, and then move directly into something else. Stacking is key here. Don't spend a lot of time on the opener, because it will create a lull in the conversation and you won't be able to revive the set. Have either a backup story as to why you are opening, or a just a DHV story ready. Example - Opener: "To you think kissing is cheating?" HB: uhhh yes/no blah blah PUA: Because one of my friends just told me her friend kissed some other guy. She has a BF. (DHV story, add one or two spikes here) HB: well maybe/yes/no/ i don't know PUA: Hmm well I can see you are full of great advice (neg said with smile and laugh). PUA: so anyway, the last time I was here this one great amazing event happened and... You get the idea. Basically just don't stay on your opener for a long time and have something ready to back it up with. |
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