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| Author: | holsetymoon [ Thu Jul 08, 2010 10:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is time constraint highly necessary? In what situations? |
Hey guys, When I first got into this seduction community, one of the first PUA's I learned from was Mystery. One of his rules is that you have to remember to use the time constraint when you open an individual or a set. Nowadays I would consider myself to be quite good with approaching and maintaining conversations with random people and getting numbers from chicks. But I never remember to use time constraint, though. Do you guys think it's absolutely necessary? Right now I'm gaming 70% daytime (in classes, on the buses, subway, etc.) and 30% nighttime at dorm parties and other social gatherings. Let me know your thought on this. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Serj [ Thu Jul 08, 2010 10:16 pm ] |
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No I don't think it's necessary especially for day game. I mean you're in a coffee shop and you're like I can only stay for a minute. It's stupid.. In my opinion a lot of the material from mystery method is out dated. SERJ-----> |
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| Author: | Hindrance [ Thu Jul 08, 2010 10:47 pm ] |
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I think it's especially important in day game in my honest opinion. If you approach a girl during the day there is a good chance she is busy. So she's immediately going to think "Great, this guy is going to pester me for ages" so she will try to act uninterested for you to leave. However with a time constraint she knows that you'll only be talking to her for a few minutes, and if you're game is good enough she won't want you to leave. That's when you can #close |
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| Author: | overcome [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 1:19 pm ] |
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I think time constraints are necessary when opening 3+ sets because they don't wanna be bothered by some random dude. So using a TC will put them at ease. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 1:55 pm ] |
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"I can only stay a minute, but I need your opinion on something...." I've tried that shit one time and one time only. It's lame. It's gay. Sure, FTC's will make things smoother so to speak, but you don't need to overreact and hold a speech about why you'll only be there a little while. This is what I use and it's innocently effective: "Hey, quick question." All you need is "quick". Easy, fast and barely noticable. What also works for me is a simple "Hm... Isn't it a perfect day to be bothered by annoying strangers?" Always getting a laugh on that one and they open up easier. |
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