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| Author: | SexyAsianKid [ Tue Jun 22, 2010 7:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Conversation Mastery - Step by Step |
CONVERSATION MASTERY Hook a woman in with, “I’ve noticed something interesting about you.” Stop talking and wait for her to respond with curiosity Look at a woman’s palm and say, “Hmm, that’s really interesting.” Put her hand down & don’t tell her what you see- let her beg you with curiosity When a woman asks you, “What you do?” have her try to guess- then tell her that you model men’s underwear Play on a woman’s curiosity- “You know what they say about women who are blond/brunette? – No? Oh, I can’t tell you here, maybe later” Use curiosity to make sure a woman shows up for the next date- promise you’ll tell her a secret next time you see her Talk about relationships & rumors with women- “Did you know Pamela and Tommy are back together? Do you think J-Lo will stay married this time?” Tell stories with moments of intrigue and surprise to take women on an emotional journey- and end on a note of laughter Relationships are what make stories interestingnot what you did. Talk about the people you met and how you interacted with them Separate yourself from the other guys- have three laugh-evoking, interesting stories memorized and ready to tell women Don’t quiz a girl by asking her 20 questions. Share your own experiences and then have her share hers Don’t sound monotone & bored in a conversation- if you talk about something exciting, sound excited- if something shocking, sound shocked Women love to talk about torrid love affairs- read the tabloids to know what the celebrities are up to If you don’t know what to say, ask a woman how she would spend her holiday if she were filthy rich without any limitations- let her fantasize In conversation talk about what you like to eat and drink. Food talk is like sexual foreplay to women If you bring up sexual topics and you feel awkward or nervous, the girl will too- relax and the sex talk will flow on its own Ask a woman you’re dating what makes her feel sexy. She’ll reveal valuable information on how to further seduce her If a woman seems put-off by a sexual question or story, do not apologize- just make her comfortable with more light, playful conversation Don’t agree with everything the woman says just to agree with her. Women like strong men who express their own opinions Good conversation needs relaxed playfulnessthen, there’s no such thing as a blunder Drop the fact casually that you read palms in conversation and the woman will ask YOU to read her palm Buy a small digital camera for your back pocket. Take pics with your dates doing fun things and show the pics to future girls you meet Women love animals- make up some funny, loving stories about your real or imaginary pets Challenge her to a game of thumb wrestling or ‘rock, scissors, paper’. Yes it’s silly, and girls love it Women like the supernatural and unknown- talk about reiki, reflexology, palm reading, spirits or ghosts and have a few stories to tell Don’t ask yes/no questions like “Can I have your number?” or “Do you like me?” Never put the power of “no” into a woman’s hands Avoid the usual boring questions like “What do you do?”, “How many sisters do you have?” Think outside the box Women like stories because stories entertain. Notice how as a child, you were read STORIES? Notice how as an adult, you watch TV for STORIES? “The Apprentice”, “The Bachelor”, and “Desperate Housewives” are all about people interactions- be your own television show Like a professional comedian, recycle 90% of your conversational material with every girl, testing new bits as you go Engage a woman’s imagination - talk about travel, the beach, your road trip, spelunking, skydiving, anyplace outside of her boring reality Learn to read women’s palms- it’s good for 5 minutes of discussion time and a great way to touch her hands Present women with a false choice- “So would you like to meet me for coffee tomorrow or meet me at my place on Saturday?” Don’t talk about what you “do”- that’s boring. Talk about what you’ve accomplished Double commands like “Give me your number and meet me for lunch tomorrow,” can’t be refused- after all, which would she be refusing? Fractionate your conversation- one moment be playful and lighthearted, another show deep insight, the next a brat. Keep the girl on her toes Give the girl a self-image to live up to: “Wow, you’re really fun, creative and spontaneous.” She’ll want to live up to the good image you gave her Ask a group, “So how do you all know each other?” It gets the girls talking and you find out which ones are single When girls are sitting say “I need a female opinion, but have just a minute” Sit down with them and they’ll be cool- then just anyway When a girl says something you like, say “That’s so cool!” then high-five her. She’ll bond with you right on the spot If you’re talking to a girl and a second girl enters the set, tell the first “Introduce me to your friend” so that you don’t become the third wheel Ask a girl whether you should floss before you brush or brush before you floss and have a playful debate about it Never ask a girl “Do you like me?” That’s just lame. Assume she likes you and she will because of your confidence Conversation is as much about the vibe you project as the words themselves- relax, be playful, and have fun no matter what happens Talk about clothes and fashion- tell the girl what you find stylish and point out what you like about her clothes As a brain teaser, have a girl tell you how many 9s are in 100 (by the way, the answer is 20- figure it out!) Covertly build yourself into the girl’s future- “Just imagine six months from now when we’re walking along the beach…” To tell a story effectively, involve your entire body in expressing the emotion- wave your hands and gesture your arms to emphasize words If the girl is insulting to you, don’t get angry, defend your ego, or call the girl names. Have the power to walk away relaxed and leave her dry If you hit an awkward silence, playfully tell the girl with a smile, “I hate you” Watch how the silence vanishes When you see a group of girls tell them, “So which one of you is the coolest?” The girl who responds first, read her palm as a reward |
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| Author: | nolan295 [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 4:36 am ] |
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great thread bro ! |
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| Author: | Jera [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 7:53 am ] |
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Man, this is going to improve my fluff talk/mid game so much. I have been falling out after my approach and open so much. My mid game needs so much work. I have also found that when you hit an awkward silence just look her straight in the eyes and pull a weird face. She'll giggle and you'll be seen as a funny/spontaneous guy with a good attitude. It's just a good way to break the silence. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 1:09 pm ] |
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Good stuff. A lot of it is based on palm reading, talking about relationships, travel, gossip, and superstitions--a.k.a. "girl crack". The other stuff is just being natural, fun, and energetic. It's how to behave in set, how to ask them for their number or out on a date, and how to control the interaction. Noobs definitely need to be directed to threads like these, as these questions are asked over and over again. |
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