PUA Forum :: HANDS DOWN BEST WAY TO DEFEAT APPROACH ANXIETY!!

Zack89 you mention how it sucks because you're not given a chance to even talk before they next you. But what this shows you is how women really are- that when you're in person, a girl is examining you and making up her mind very visually. First impression are 90% visual (appearance etc..) and only 10% what you've got to say. So if you can master pleasing her visually on the first impression, than the other 10% will go much smoother for you.

I am a relatively good looking male so I thought girls would want to talk to me. WRONG! I still got nexted instantaneously by the gorgeous girls I wanted to meet. I had to be creative, witty, and fast to keep their attention. I was wanting to not get nexted by girls so badly that my openers became outrageous. If you are creative, humorous, entertaining or giving off a fun vibe (basically everything people on here tell you to be in RL) then they give you a slight chance. This helps decrease AA like Capt mentioned. You also learn what inner game/routines/dhv works by talking with these girls.. because if you at anytime push the wrong button on a girl - you're nexted.

Hey, here's a novel idea on how to get over Approach Anxiety- GET OFF YOUR FRICKIN ASSES AND GO MEET SOME GIRLS IN REAL LIFE!

Sheesh, the kids nowadays....

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Hey, here's a novel idea on how to get over Approach Anxiety- GET OFF YOUR FRICKIN ASSES AND GO MEET SOME GIRLS IN REAL LIFE!

Sheesh, the kids nowadays....

A lot of guys on this site just sit around reading and reading, thinking "this is such great material!" but then they're too afraid to use it. Chat RT helps them stay safe behind there screen while still getting some experience in AA.

Of course it's not going to solve all your problems, but it's a start.

I find it funny people on this site think there is only one way to be successful. It's not wrong to take baby steps.

Author:	CaptRow [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 7:50 pm ]
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alright, so check it out. not sure if you guys know, but there's a website called chatroulette.com basically, its like live youtube where people meet other people via webcam. so its a chance to see complete strangers!! theres alotta guys masturbating and whatnot, but if you go past that there might be some help to get rid of A.A. and just start chattin people up. lemme know what y'all think

Author:	FelterX [ Mon Mar 08, 2010 10:25 pm ]
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I love chat roullette, once you land a cute girl you can tease her and practice. My goal is to see some skin ... it relieves anxiety because you know at a push of a button youll never see them again.

Author:	verdantx [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 4:27 am ]
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Chatroulette is great for approach anxiety in general, not just in the dating context. The sort of four second sizing-you-up that people do is informative too, it proves that you can't just be boring because people will skip you instantly unless you distinguish yourself from the rest of the pack. Also good if you like watching guys fucking stuffed raccoons and shit like that.

Author:	TheGoldenBoyBenG [ Tue Mar 09, 2010 5:19 am ]
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it's not like slaying a dragon, you just have to be more confident with yourself, and this thing is wierdd, just go out and meet people

Author:	zack89 [ Wed Mar 10, 2010 10:41 pm ]
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ok i checked it out. The idea is cool, but in real life it doesn't work that good. Almost everybody disconnected immediately. I didn't even had the chance to say hi. Webcam goes on, they see my face, bam f9 disconnect... Those who didn't disconnect where either total losers or guys with their dick in their hand. I saw some girls, but they were very rare and gone before i even saw them decently. so for all you who want to try, i advise omegle . c o m instead. Same thing but no webcam aka no dicks.

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Author:	rossa [ Thu Mar 11, 2010 2:25 am ]
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why not stickcam???

Author:	chigurh [ Fri Mar 12, 2010 8:12 pm ]
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Yeah, I had some fun with Chatroulette recently. I was on the computer with a friend, and I'd downloaded a youtube movie of a REALLY cute girl in front of the cam. The movie lasted about 5 minutes. By using a program like Manycam, you can use that fragment as display. After a while I knew her every move, so I could type stuff relating to what she was going to do next. (Like she kept looking to the room next door, so I said: "My mom's next door.) This made it all very believable. It'snot really PUA-related, but it was fun though. It was also a good example of how AFC's hit on hot girls. I remember a post here of someone who wrote: 'imagine being a perfect 10, and that you have guys hitting on you ALL the time." Well, using this 'alter ego', I really experienced what it was like to be hit on as a girl. Pretty pathetic. It does make you understand HB's a bit more though, it might give you a good insight on approaching. Btw: this was the movie. unfortunate side-effect: almost every guy started swinging his dick in front of the webcam... [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHZD805qaQY[/youtube] [/url]

Author:	igetit [ Sat Mar 13, 2010 4:39 am ]
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100% agree with you Capt. I use this all the time. I even thought of how it was helping me out when I first tried it a couple weeks ago. At first, I got nexted every time there was a girl I wanted to talk to and thought "This sucks!". But that gave me an opportunity to see something positive out of it. Think of it this way: How many times have you been in an awkward situation in life and wished you could have just gotten up and left with no problem but couldn't? Whether it would be rude or you just didn't know how to not hurt their feelings by leaving? Would you have done it if you didn't know the person and could have gotten away immediately and never seen them again? Well, Chat roulette gives you the chance to eliminate those situations, and since you barely knew who ever you just nexted, you don't feel bad at all. So you're probably thinking, "well that sucks for us guys who get nexted!" But the beauty of chat roulette is just that. You have got the slimmest time frame to catch someone by the eye, or you're out of there, because they don't care about you at all. This is what chat roulette begins to teach you: Zack89 you mention how it sucks because you're not given a chance to even talk before they next you. But what this shows you is how women really are- that when you're in person, a girl is examining you and making up her mind very visually. First impression are 90% visual (appearance etc..) and only 10% what you've got to say. So if you can master pleasing her visually on the first impression, than the other 10% will go much smoother for you. I am a relatively good looking male so I thought girls would want to talk to me. WRONG! I still got nexted instantaneously by the gorgeous girls I wanted to meet. I had to be creative, witty, and fast to keep their attention. I was wanting to not get nexted by girls so badly that my openers became outrageous. If you are creative, humorous, entertaining or giving off a fun vibe (basically everything people on here tell you to be in RL) then they give you a slight chance. This helps decrease AA like Capt mentioned. You also learn what inner game/routines/dhv works by talking with these girls.. because if you at anytime push the wrong button on a girl - you're nexted. So basically, once you don't get nexted... you know you have something going for you. It has helped me create my own openers, routines, negs, DHV, stories, and become a better AMOG. I've been told numerous times that I'm the favorite person they've met on CR. Master Chat Roulette, and you will have much better confidence in person.

Author:	WindsweptScotsman [ Sat Mar 13, 2010 8:30 am ]
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Quote: Zack89 you mention how it sucks because you're not given a chance to even talk before they next you. But what this shows you is how women really are- that when you're in person, a girl is examining you and making up her mind very visually. First impression are 90% visual (appearance etc..) and only 10% what you've got to say. So if you can master pleasing her visually on the first impression, than the other 10% will go much smoother for you. I am a relatively good looking male so I thought girls would want to talk to me. WRONG! I still got nexted instantaneously by the gorgeous girls I wanted to meet. I had to be creative, witty, and fast to keep their attention. I was wanting to not get nexted by girls so badly that my openers became outrageous. If you are creative, humorous, entertaining or giving off a fun vibe (basically everything people on here tell you to be in RL) then they give you a slight chance. This helps decrease AA like Capt mentioned. You also learn what inner game/routines/dhv works by talking with these girls.. because if you at anytime push the wrong button on a girl - you're nexted. Can you explain a bit more? How were you using openers if you don't even get a chance to talk?

Author:	igetit [ Sat Mar 13, 2010 5:49 pm ]
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[quote="WindsweptScotsman"] Can you explain a bit more? How were you using openers if you don't even get a chance to talk?[/quote] Use body language to shock them. Most the time, I'll just kind of dance to myself in front of the camera with my mic muted. They'll start laughing or what not. I keep going until they say something, normally along the lines of "What are you doing?", "Do you always dance by yourself?" etc.. and then I'll respond "I can party anytime anywhere" "that's how we do it here in (location)" DHV, and then ask where they are from, and respond "well that sucks." "i hear you guys don't know how to party." DLV to them. Then they'll try to DHV.

Author:	Archangel White Rose [ Sat Mar 13, 2010 7:00 pm ]
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Hey, here's a novel idea on how to get over Approach Anxiety- GET OFF YOUR FRICKIN ASSES AND GO MEET SOME GIRLS IN REAL LIFE! Sheesh, the kids nowadays....

Author:	igetit [ Sat Mar 13, 2010 7:14 pm ]
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Quote: Hey, here's a novel idea on how to get over Approach Anxiety- GET OFF YOUR FRICKIN ASSES AND GO MEET SOME GIRLS IN REAL LIFE! Sheesh, the kids nowadays.... A lot of guys on this site just sit around reading and reading, thinking "this is such great material!" but then they're too afraid to use it. Chat RT helps them stay safe behind there screen while still getting some experience in AA. Of course it's not going to solve all your problems, but it's a start. I find it funny people on this site think there is only one way to be successful. It's not wrong to take baby steps.

Author:	CaptRow [ Mon Mar 22, 2010 1:42 pm ]
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Quote: Hey, here's a novel idea on how to get over Approach Anxiety- GET OFF YOUR FRICKIN ASSES AND GO MEET SOME GIRLS IN REAL LIFE! Sheesh, the kids nowadays.... if you see urself as a step above total AA, then consider urself lucky. there's alotta guys out there that are nervous to even try this site out. agreeing with igetit, baby steps. put it on auto-reconnect, and don't next anyone. you don't even have to say anything. just allow urself to get rejected by everyone out there

Author:	Little Panda [ Mon Mar 22, 2010 4:15 pm ]
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Quote: Hey, here's a novel idea on how to get over Approach Anxiety- GET OFF YOUR FRICKIN ASSES AND GO MEET SOME GIRLS IN REAL LIFE! Sheesh, the kids nowadays.... Finally someone said it.

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Author:	Archangel White Rose [ Mon Mar 22, 2010 4:35 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Hey, here's a novel idea on how to get over Approach Anxiety- GET OFF YOUR FRICKIN ASSES AND GO MEET SOME GIRLS IN REAL LIFE! Sheesh, the kids nowadays.... A lot of guys on this site just sit around reading and reading, thinking "this is such great material!" but then they're too afraid to use it. Chat RT helps them stay safe behind there screen while still getting some experience in AA. Of course it's not going to solve all your problems, but it's a start. I find it funny people on this site think there is only one way to be successful. It's not wrong to take baby steps. I've been to that website, it's not going to solve ANY of your problems and it is not a start. If you have AA you can do what I did, go to the mall and get rejected by 10 girls, then go the next day and get turned down by 10 more girls. If I could do it you an do it.