OK since it's a singles party just play natural game. Meaning don't used canned openers and such unless you have your own or your a natural PUA already.
The girls there are obviously there looking to meet a good guy so that is already working for you.
That said just be more of yourself but the key here is to minimize AA (anxiety) and have confidence, just reveal your confident side.
I'd try to come up with a funny joke or something about V day or being single in general as an opener. Or something similar. Try to save the "what do you do, where are you from" until after 3 to 5 min of conversation and you already broke the ice enough AND you get positive IOI's. I say that because every other guy there will probably start off like.
"hi, how are you?"
"my name is..."
"so what do you do?"
"where do you live at?" ect.
Be original!
Also try some of the routines after you further established the conversation like ESP ("think of a number between 1 and 10, was it 3?") (carrot game: what's 5+1, 10-4,..think of a vegtable...was it a carrot?) ect. Try to find ones your comfortable with and you can do naturally and not make it appear canned.
something that will engage her and challenge her (like 10+ minutes into the convo) If there is dancing involved I personally save that stuff till the later part of the dance while dancing.
Don't forget the Kino! If your dancing that will help the kino! if not try to use kino in some of your routines like the "trust test".
Being as natural and confident here is key since you want to reveal as much of your good qualities as possible since the single women are there to meet men.
So with that said just remember the basics if you forget everything else that is
Always establish eye contact and make sure you gaze..not stare. Smile if she notices you.
Stand straight, look straight, don't slouch and look down. Don't cross your arms.
Speak in a good voice tone meaning from your chest, not your head. You should feel it in your chest.
Try to be flirtatious. If not that familiar google how to flirt on ehow.com or something.
Hope I helped.
Please do reply back telling me how it went.
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