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| Author: | onetwoboy [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 12:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | HOW DO I TELL GIRL I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS? |
Ok long stoRy shoRt....I kicked it with this giRl FRIDAY and SATURDAY and I kissed heR on SATURDAY and we weRe holding hands and stuff. Now, I didn't ask heR to be my giRl, but she wants to see me all the time to "Kiss" me again, I'm pRetty suRe she thinks weRe official now. I like heR but I just don't want heR to be my giRl cause I'm gonna be 18 next month and she is 16. I don't want that Risk involved so how would I go about telling heR to just be fRiends, but shes Reall fine. I'm planning to get some ice cReam with heR tonight and tell heR something like, I don't want to get into a Relationship because of the age thing and I'd RatheR be heR fRiend and make heR feel like I'll be theRe like a cool fRiend. I don't want to come acRoss as an asshole afteR I kissed heR you know. any tippsss? |
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| Author: | Z-Wrex [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 4:37 pm ] |
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wtf is wrong with your R key, dude? It makes posts tougher to read when they're written like that. Grammar aside, you didn't fuck her, so at least there's no way she could say you used her or anything. Depending on where you live, that age difference is probably legal, most states/countries either have an age of consent at 16 or they allow relationships where the age gap between the two is like two or three years. So I guess the situation is, do you think you're gonna be in potential legal trouble? Or do you just not want to be made fun of as a cradle snatcher? Honestly if it's legal, I say roll with it because it's a 2 year goddamn difference. If you can't be in a relationship with her, though, for whatever reason, just be honest. Tell her you just don't want a relationship right now but you want to be her friend, continue to hang out together, etc. You just have to put a stop to the physical stuff, little as it was. |
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| Author: | Odog210 [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:03 pm ] |
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Yeah, get that R key fixed. Tell her you just want to be friends. Simple as that. Women have been doing it to men for millenia, why do you think it wouldn't work both ways? I can honestly say I've kissed the majority of my female friends. It's weird at first, but it becomes one of those things you can joke about. The plus side to this, though, is that they now see you in a slightly sexual light and are more likely to hook you up with their friends, or even help you hook up with strangers in clubs/bars. The biggest problem with female friends is they tend to see you as this asexual thing, and having a history where you kissed (or had sex) changes that. I can say that the coolest, hottest, most important women I've ever met in my life was via my best female friend, who in high school I hooked up with and had a very passionate relationship with before we decided we made better friends then partners. I went on to introduce her to her husband and become the godfather of one of her kids, and she went on to introduce me to the woman I'll probably end up marrying in a few years (until then, though, I'm going to continue to have my fun and hone my skills, as evidence by the fact that I joined this site). Just be honest. Might be tough, but honesty is always the best policy in a situation like this because it makes everything cut and dry and crystal clear and she can't come back at you later claiming she thought you were trying to say something different then what you really were. Remember not to make a big deal out of it though! If you make it a big deal, she'll feed off of that and make a big deal out of it as well. If you approach it casually, like it's not a big deal, she'll be more inclined to be casual too. Don't be surprised if she tries to make it seem like YOU'RE making a bigger deal out of it then she is. Women love to pull that card, especially when they're hurt. |
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| Author: | FROZ3N [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:13 pm ] |
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Sounds quite like shes a bit nutty and desperate but you may have just a girl who is passionate about you. If I was 18 and she was 16 I wouldn't say no if the law let it. anything more then 2 years is weird. Anyway be honest and just put it down on paper. Worst thing you can do is beat about the bush. Ive noticed if you umm and uuuh about things they just get worst yet if you make decisions that matter (good or bad) its much much better for both parties. This works for most situations in life. Make the call the way you want it to be and if you are not happy, so be it. |
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| Author: | HollowedACE [ Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:22 pm ] |
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Just tell her you don't look for a serious relationship right now... you can stay ''good'' friends but you don't want to get engage in a LTR |
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