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Author:  DigitalMonkey [ Sat Jan 16, 2010 3:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Army Uniform Approach>Need advice
Hey guys,

I'm new here, so if you want here's a little introduction:
i'm 20 yr, serve in the IDF (Israel Defense Force), i broke up with my girlfriend 3 months ago after 2 and a half years of relationship.

The real issue:

Usually i have a real problem approaching people i don't know, especially girls.
I have low confidence in myself, BUT as soon as i start the thing going i become very confident and open, so the problem is the begging.
I take a 90 minutes bus drive to my base every day. In the same bus station there is a girl that serves near my base, meaning that we take that same bus, meaning i have 90 minutes with her every day.

Now, the problem: I have no idea how to approach her, absolutly no bloody idea.
Another thing, is the uniform, i don't know if it matters, but it kinda affect my confidence, cause i don't like the way i look in them.

So guys, if you can help me find a nice starter line, or a way to approach her that would be splendid :)
Author:  AFC_MATT [ Sat Jan 16, 2010 5:19 pm ]
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hey man when you say she serves , do you mean in the IDF or in the bus station as a shop assistant ? I served in the Irish Defence Forces fo 2 years so i know how you feel about feeling uncomfortable in uniform .
Author:  DigitalMonkey [ Sat Jan 16, 2010 7:11 pm ]
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She serves in the IDF, in the same base complex as i am (complex meaning, its a huge territory with alot of bases in it, so she's not in my exact base)
Author:  AFC_MATT [ Sat Jan 16, 2010 8:07 pm ]
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okay well you could make your way over to her , or sitting beside her without making it obvious, start up a light conversation bout how you always see her on the bus and youve never known her name , maybe about the section she works in? courses shes applied for ? just keep asking her about herself (family , friends , hobbies )and listen to her throw in the odd question here and there , a womans favourite topic is about herself.. just be confidant when talking to her and try eye contact! Let me know how you get on!
Author:  SpeXXX [ Thu Jan 21, 2010 7:28 pm ]
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I'm also 20yo from Israel, although I didn't recruit to the army because of med conditions, but that's irrelevant.

First of all, you need to work on your confidence, smile, energy, voice tone which are basically what we call Alpha Male characteristics. However, It may seem a little bit minor and not important and you want a specific line that will open the door for your conversation, but there isn't any. I mean, people could tell you what to say, but the real answer is how you say.

The true game is not about running canned openers, and memorizing routines like a machine. The true game is actually understanding what's happening and calibrating from there with whatever you realized you gotta do. whether is attraction, building comfort, using kino, etc.

In your case, I would just be witty and charming say with a smile of course: "If I had a dollar for every time I saw you in the bus I would've been a millionaire"
Its doesn't convey to much interest, but you can start a conversation with it.

You could equally say: "I see you too much on this bus, wanna make it official and be my bus wife?"
Again, the way you say it is more important than the context.

Main thing is, and that's a big one. Don't lean-in in an awkward way and speak with her if you're standing and she's sitting. Just don't make it look you're trying too hard, make it look chill and just being friendly trying to start a conversation.
Act as if she is just a little variable in the equation of your day, she is no biggie, just chill and do your thing.
Author:  Voodoo.Fresh [ Thu Jan 21, 2010 10:21 pm ]
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Been there, enough times..

Ask her about her chest pins or unit tag
tell her you bet she's "young" (army time) but sure she could even make it to be a nagad.

from there roll a convo to a NC, even better take her out to the shekem and day 2 etc..

army romance is great.
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