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Author:  sacredstoryteller [ Thu Jan 07, 2010 12:50 pm ]
Post subject:  HB Invites Up Then Stands Up

Last night I was opened by a Aussie HB9 that I'd met a week or two earlier at the same place. We talked at the bar for a bit and she told me she'd talk to me later. My seat at the bar ended up getting taken so I went and sat down with her. She bought me a drink, we talked for a while, I went up and sang (to thunderous applause). I sang one or songs that I had briefly mentioned to her like it was nothing, one song that was from her favourite movie (Sound of Music). Things were good, kino took off and we made plans to go skating (she'd never been before) the next day. She kept asking me when and where we were meeting, like she didn't want me to forget, maybe thinking i was too drunk or something. We started making out and she said 'Lets go somewhere', I offered to take her on a tour of my city. We were outside, dancing in the streets and then she got cold so she invited me back to her Backpackers hostel. The fuckin guy at the desk wouldn't let me up! I stood there stupid, raging hard on, telling her "I can't go up" Then I said "You know, I have a house." and I didn't really get a response. She walked up the stairs and I said 'Do you want me to take you on the tour?' she turned around and smiled and nodded so I said "Ok get your jacket, I'll be outside" I waited forever for her to come down and she never did. Then today I show up at the hostel to take her skating, and I wait for half an hour. Luckily some people I knew were there so I sat with them and drank, then she finally came down and I chased her down and "Hey, where're you goin?' Aren't we doing something?' She almost looked at me like she had noo idea what I was talking about and told me she was off to 'see a house' and that she'd be back soon. I didn't see her after that. It was fucked.

What did I do wrong? I will say that at some points my game was weak, but she liked me anyway. I don't know. Was she just drunk and blacked out and doesn't remember? Will the memories come back to her? I might see her next week at the same place (I play the open mic every week), should I ignore her or confront her on it? Wait for her to talk to me? I'm befuzzled.

Also, one of the weak spots of my game with her was when she asked me my age. I'm 18, I don't have a fake iD, I've never been in a club. So when HB 20somethings ask how old I am I always tell them I'm 20, or 21. I can pull off that age but I don't like lying, plus its kinda hard. I'd like to avoid the question and tell them my real age after they're already so attracted to me they'll forget it (thats what happened with my last gf. She was 21, I was 17 but I told her I was 19) Got anyways around that.

Thanks guys

Author:  SDub_ [ Fri Jan 08, 2010 5:51 am ]
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Bruhh. To answer your questions their really isn't any. It could have been a Number of things. She fell asleep, and was embarrassed, assumed she will see you again and preferred not to talk to you.
I'm sure she was not blackout drunk unless she was stumbling all over the place and slurring her word etc. Ive dealt with it and trust me, you wouldn't want to.
What you really need to worry about is Open mic night again. Do your thing, if she walks in act like u dint see her, at first. As time passes see if you can make eye contact while performing and (personally whut i would do with how i run game) is wink, throw a smile in and go about your business. Now you let her know, you know shes their. However key here is to act to busy or imprt once your act is up. Go to the bar, socialize with friends, just look pre-occupied.
After you kept her waiting, while your ordering a drink or whatever, give her a nod or "finger" her your way.
Just avoid the subject of what happend last week, act like nothing happend, and let her bring it up. She Will. Start from square 1 if you have to, just remember you've established kino buy temp etc... So it should be gravy.

This is just me personally how i'd play it. I have a creepy AMOG heir about me but im very nonthreatening, and this is guaranteed to work for me...

Let me know
~Dub

Author:  sacredstoryteller [ Sat Jan 09, 2010 12:53 am ]
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Its funny because in the last day or so I've been thinkin this through, and that exaactly how I was plannin to do it. Make her happy that I've finally come over to talk to her. When I go up to her, I want the first fuckin thing outta her mouth to be "I'm soo sorry about that, I really didn't mean to hurt you feelings. I felt so bad about it and I could get it outta my head all week" (shes saying this while giving me the PDDB look and grabing my hands). But it probably won't happen like that, but sippa sippa, we'll see. I'll have fun without her, and then I'll have fun with her. I'll let you know what happens

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