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Author:  ch4mp [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 4:40 am ]
Post subject:  what's the worst rejection you've received?
I've been into this for 5 weeks now and most of the rejections (I can't even remember most of the individual ones at all anymore) I've received have been pretty mild, but there's one in which some girl on the dance floor just looked at me sticking out her tongue and saying "yuck!" That same night, another set was like "Sorry, we're nameless" when I approached them. Maybe if I got really jacked and became a better dancer, these skanks would've talked to me, but I already get attention from way more attractive girls anyways, so fuck that type of girl.

Beyond that, I barely remember any of them, LOL. They just blend into each other. I've also received some really awkward half rejections. The one that really pops out is when this one girl wanted me to stop dancing up close with her yet when I tried to eject, she pulled back on my arms. I ended up ejecting anyways because there was no way I was going to be able to isolate her from her girlfriends (I started dancing up close to her b/c it was awkward as fuck seeing her mirror my shitty dance moves as most girls don't do that) and have a real conversation with her at the bar.

So tell me, what's the worst rejection you've received?
Author:  Corey [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 6:25 am ]
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I haven't really had any BAD rejections. Most of them bring up that they have a b/f and thats a rejection right there for me. Anyway the worst I could think of was when I was at the Y one day sitting on a couch while resting from my workout and this girl walked past, I smiled at her, she smiled at me, and then I noticed her give a weird look to herself like a "WTF, why would I be interested in him?" type.
Author:  ch4mp [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 7:12 am ]
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I received the boyfriend/husband excuse at least 4x during day gaming it up last Saturday (I approached like 20 girls, though, so you're bound to get it).

This one time my buddy sort of clawed this one random girl's hair (clawing is a poor way to describe it, but it's like when you put your hand into this pincers configuration and gently scrunch the top of some girl's head [lol, maybe that's an even worse description?]) and she was like "Never fucking do that again please. Thanks." It sort of was like water off of a duck's back and he completely pretended nothing happened. He did the same move again on another girl he had been talking to for a while and it sort of made her melt. I'm almost positive he banged her later that night.

But yeah, that's the worst rejection I've seen a PUA besides myself get.

I have been rejected at least 15-20 times and I've only been doing this 5 weeks. I'm still here and alive. You just move the fuck on. We have nothing to fear.
Author:  Corey [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 7:23 am ]
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Meh, I've been talking to girls since high school.........recently I've just stopped because most of them have b/fs. One I talked to recently at this gas station by my work, brought up in convo that she's married and has a kid or two.....and wow, it would be me to be interested in her in the first place before she mentioned this >_>. Honestly, it just gets discouraging after a while.
Author:  LaVitaèBreve [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 7:33 am ]
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I've always thought the absolute worst kind of rejection is silence/being ignored. Whether its at the market or on the internet. It used to feel like a knife in my soul.

Silence says a lot.
Author:  _Manna_ [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 7:17 pm ]
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"You look like you're twelve."
<girl walks away>

T_T
Author:  abcdef123456 [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 9:04 pm ]
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''Fucking grow up!'' Can't remember what I said tbh.
''OMFG go away!'' Then she walked off - this was after I told her I had swine flu lol.
There was some girl I approached on a dancefloor and she just looked at me with squinted eyes, she was a bit taller than me, then she put her hand on top of her head, held it straight out then brought it down to my height to signal that I was too short, then squinted more and shook her head, then turned her nose up at me and truned away lol, pretty harsh...
''OMG! As if I'd be interested in you, you little pipsqueek'' haha harshest ever :)
Author:  Adonis Spyridon [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 9:08 pm ]
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I was talking to this girl one time and I said,

TD: "So what are you into?"
Girl: "Not you, go away!"

Shocked me like a sonofabitch, but looking back, it really wasn't that big of a deal.

- TD out
Author:  ALPHA LiON [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 10:09 pm ]
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I feel your pain bro, and you are true to them being skanks that is all they are (even if I have banged them all but that's another story).

One of the worst rejections I had was before I found pickup, I was 15 years old and on the bus, I saw this gorgeous little blond thing smiling her pretty eyes out. I wasn't in anyway alpha I was just a skinny shy kid with a bad haircut and I had been bullied into having no self esteem. Anyway I somehow plucked up the balls to go for it since it was just me, her and her friend.

ME: Hi (nervous smiles)
HER: (blanks me)
HER FREIND: Who are you talking to? (in an aggressive tone)
ME: (frozen in horror lol)
HER FREIND: look at the state of you go away
HER: (laughs)
ME: whatever (face red)
HER FREIND: go shave your hairy arms (something like that)

Then at the age of 17 my first (decent looking) EXGF dumped me, she was really nice about it but that really fucked me up even more, I didn't think I would get a prettier girl ever again lol.

HER: i think its best if we just be freinds

Here's one at around 18 after learning basic pickup:

ME: (said nothing sat down next to some girls and smiled)
HER: Go away or im getting the door staff to throw you out!

There was more but these are the ones that stood out in my mind,

Funny thing is I wouldn't change a single fucking one of them!... know why?
Because they made me who I am today every put down, rejection or act of ignorance I have endured has pushed me to be that little bit more determined and really go after what I want.

So remember that next time your hit with a sore one, she will be begging to suck your dick in 5 years anyway.
Author:  Prime_Star [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 11:33 pm ]
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I am 21, and I can say I have had many rejections even when I discovered the game.

Once I went out and I went to talk to a girl, I was like, how many guys came up and said you were sexy tonite?...couldn't hear what she said, and I was like 2? Only 2?
As usual she had a friend in front of her dancing, she sent her some signals, and both just started say GO AWAY GO AWAY!! I just looked at them and said F-U!! lol


Another time, I went to talk to a girl, she just showed me the hand. Like TALK TO THE HAND U FOOL!! ...that really affected me!! My confidence was shattered.

I cannot say that I have actually been successful in the field, but I feel more confident even though it means getting rejected and going home alone!! I just take it as one of those days(even though its been one of those days everytime I go out) lol... :D This is why I am here. To learn and apply!!So watever a girl says to you, just be confident and no matter how bad it is, remember, practice makes perfection!!
Author:  Pesmerga [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 7:38 am ]
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I definitely got the worst one EVER last night, and it was my first night back into the game for over year.

Anyway, I was approaching a 3 set (HB7, HB8, HB8) and as soon as the first word escaped from my mouth, one of the HB8s literally shover her hand into my face to stop me from talking. I negged her to the group and ended up talking to the target for a while. But damn, that was harsh.
Author:  Ac1d [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 1:33 pm ]
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Ok I got the most crazy,weird and believe it or not kinda racist.

ok So i'm in the club with my wing and I see a short blonde HB9 she was so damn sexy. any I like at her and knowing the three second rule I went to open. Before I could even say one word her girlfriend that i didn't even see came out of no where

Bitchy friend: hey you black guy my friend is not into all that gun play and weed smoking shit so u better take your ass back to the ghetto.

me:Huh??

Bitchy friend: Yea leave she don't need someone like u talking to her

Me: I was just about to ask where the bathroom was (lying)

Bitchy friend: whatever. both leaves.

 I was like wtf where was my wing?? but it's cool he got a hb Asian close so it's all good. but damn that shit was crazy I never been more afraid of a little white in my girl life lol.
Author:  Energy_ [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 1:46 pm ]
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Girl looking bored at the bar, with two friends.

Me: I like really like goin out just to watch the big TV-screens at this bar.
You know, just watch TV. Dont talk to anybody.
Her: Thats the worst pick-up-line I ever heard. Fuck off.
Author:  Chillburg [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 2:30 pm ]
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wow there's some harsh stuff in here :P
i've had my share too, i just cant think of anything at the moment except for the last rejection i've had.

I was a little drunk and I saw 2 girls getting a nightsnack at the same place as me, and i flirted with them like an hour before while in a club.
I told my friends " here let me show you how it's done" and I went up to them and I think i said something like " HEY i just danced with you in that club" and they just both turned their backs on me LOL

feels bad man :D
Luckily my friends were too drunk to remember
Author:  ch4mp [ Mon Dec 07, 2009 5:31 am ]
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Ok I got the most crazy,weird and believe it or not kinda racist.

ok So i'm in the club with my wing and I see a short blonde HB9 she was so damn sexy. any I like at her and knowing the three second rule I went to open. Before I could even say one word her girlfriend that i didn't even see came out of no where

Bitchy friend: hey you black guy my friend is not into all that gun play and weed smoking shit so u better take your ass back to the ghetto.

me:Huh??

Bitchy friend: Yea leave she don't need someone like u talking to her

Me: I was just about to ask where the bathroom was (lying)

Bitchy friend: whatever. both leaves.

 I was like wtf where was my wing?? but it's cool he got a hb Asian close so it's all good. but damn that shit was crazy I never been more afraid of a little white in my girl life lol.

You should've just been like "ahaha, you're a RACIST? ahahaha" and walked away. What a stupid woman, dude.
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