There is my "field report" 
I went for it. But I didn't try to make girls go up with me. I felt like if it will be weird. For your information, I am not a great dancer. I look just fine when I dance. I don't look stucked or shy so I think that helped me.
The night didn't start that good. There was police everywhere because of guys who were there to make trouble. I was not that confident because there way TOO MANY guys...Maybe arround 70% guys and 30% girls. But we went for it anyway.
I was on the stage with my friend. We don't look bad at all. We were on the stage for about 10-20minutes just dancing. Then, when the dancefloor started to fill up, a lot of girls was looking at us. When I was looking, I always got eye contact with some chicks. I saw a set of 4 girls. I got en eye contact twice. It was obvious they were looking at us. I ask my friend if it was just me or this group was checking us out. He told me that it's so obvious. So 2 minutes later, I got an eye contact with the same girl of the group. I smiled and kept the eye contact longer. She smiled back. 2 minutes later, she cames with one of her friend on the stage with us. We started dancing close, I think it was the hottest dance I had in my life. The song finished, I looked at the dancefloor, every girls was looking at us. It was ridiculous. My friend was freaking out because he didn't know why. After the dance with the 2 girls, our social value increase like hell. Not even 5minutes later I was dancing with another girl AND her friend. I felt like god. Then again, after that, 2 others girls jumped in and started to dance with us. That was too freaking easy. Then, one of my friend was dancing with a really hot girl. While she was dancing with him, she asked him if he knows me ( she pointed at me ). I took that like an IOI because why she will asks for another guy if she is dancing with one right now. I didn't try to do anything because she was older than me (seems to have arround 20 and I am 18, I felt intimated...and yes, I am serious. -.- ).
That happened in about 30-45min. We got to dance with a lot of hot girls. Anyway, the funiest/weird part came after that. We were obviously the guys of the night. Everyone was looking at us. There was a set of 4 girls. They were looking at us from the beginning but they didn't approach. When they saw that we surrounded by girls, 2 of them decided to approach. Then...at the last second, they went away. I felt like if my social value was so high that they didn't want to come with us. When they got back on their group, they looked at us for a long time.
Anyway, that night increased my confidence.  Today on the bus and college I was smiling to a lot of girls and I got lot of smile back. The hardest part is now done I think.
I didn't close, but now I feel like approach girls is not that hard. The close part will be my next step for sure.
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