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Author:  M16 [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 9:05 pm ]
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Anyone know any good day game openers?
Author:  The Omega Man [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 8:06 pm ]
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I would suggest either
1. Direct "CIQ" (compliment-introduction-question)
"Hi, I just saw u from over there and I have to say you look/are really {insert compliment}. I'm {your name} [put hand out to shake]. So what do you like to do when you're not shopping[or whatever]?"

2. Situational
"You know I really like this bookstore" [use in a bookstore, it would help lol]
"Have you heard the new Norah Jones album?" [in a CD shop] etc

3. Indirect
"Excuse me, do you know where...?"
Author:  GirlCatcher [ Fri Dec 04, 2009 3:00 am ]
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Excuse me. I don't mean to bother you but I just had to tell you that those boots you're wearing are absolutely stunning...where did you get them?
Author:  M16 [ Fri Dec 04, 2009 3:42 am ]
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Thanks for your help guys.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 1:08 pm ]
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I have to say that I disgree with the approaches of Omega Man & Girl Catcher eventhough many dating coaches gurus advocate that opener.

#1,why the hell are you Mr. Girl Catcher saying "Excuse me" when delivering opener? There's exception to everything by as Matador of Venusian Arts said,"Excuse me is a vagrants opener. Why are you saying excuse?What are you excusing yourself for"?

2nd.ly,why the F are you telling the target,"I wanted to say hi,or I seen you and had to..."?That is a DLV opener IMO.You're basically subcommunicating to her that she's the prize and she's that important. Make the approach seem random,sporadic. By you telling her you were basically watching her is counterproductive.
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 1:26 pm ]
Post subject:  JSmooth's Openers
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I have to say that I disgree with the approaches of Omega Man & Girl Catcher eventhough many dating coaches gurus advocate that opener.

#1,why the hell are you Mr. Girl Catcher saying "Excuse me" when delivering opener? There's exception to everything by as Matador of Venusian Arts said,"Excuse me is a vagrants opener. Why are you saying excuse?What are you excusing yourself for"?
I agree you don't need to say Excuse me. As Mystery says, "What are you a fucking bother?" Another point I'll make when I was in sales and I had to go up to customer's you're taught never to say Excuse Me. Never apologize for doing your job. PUA is kind of your job, and so is meeting women. It's a man's job to lead so no need to apologize. :) Besides, being approached as a woman is a compliment in its own right.
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2nd.ly,why the F are you telling the target,"I wanted to say hi,or I seen you and had to..."?That is a DLV opener IMO.You're basically subcommunicating to her that she's the prize and she's that important. Make the approach seem random,sporadic. By you telling her you were basically watching her is counterproductive.
I wouldn't say that is a DLV. Look at some of the openers below from some of the most respected Day Game pickup artists in the world J Dogg and Doc Holiday. These guys are two of the absolute best and this is what they use. If you want to argue the point then cool, but all I'm saying is it works for them and it works for me.

1.) I saw you over here, you seemed pretty cool, and I wanted to see what you're all about. I'm Jon ~ Credit to J Dogg (Day Game Master)

2.) I know this is completely random but I saw you over here and I had to come over and introduce myself. I'm Jon. ~ Credit to Doc Holiday (Day Game Master)

3.) Are you single? Well you shouldn't be. *SMILE* :) <--- Works very well.

These are all field tested and I have used them many times will little to no problems whatsoever. These are very direct and to the point ruling the girl in or out quickly so you can move on if you need to.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 2:30 pm ]
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Thanks for the reinforcement JSmooth on the "excuse me opener".

As I said,many dating coaches advocate the"I just wanted to..."opener. I don't,it just telegraphs too much JSmooth.

A more favorable opener that I use is the more simple,"Hey,hey guys,hey girl,hey brown hair(if she as brown hair). And many gurus use those openers:Matador mainly.
Author:  Mayhem&Anarchy [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 3:48 pm ]
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Ya I really didn't like Omega's and Catcher's openers. Saying excuse me, complimenting right off the bat, that's the stuff they here all the time.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 4:36 pm ]
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Exactly M&A. I think compliment openers should be abolished(lol).

As Mayhem & Anarchy said,complimenting right of the bat is what every other guy does.

Im not saying you're not gonna get a "thank you" from some targets but a compliment-opener doesn't up the chance-it diminishes it as you become like the 6th. dude who said that to her in thelas 6 hrs.

Thanks for agreeing with me on this one M&A.
Author:  Mayhem&Anarchy [ Tue Dec 29, 2009 4:50 pm ]
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You know I got your back K. ha

It's true though compliment openers should be abolished. It's AFC stuff.
Author:  redroooster [ Sun Jan 03, 2010 9:36 am ]
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You know I got your back K. ha

It's true though compliment openers should be abolished. It's AFC stuff.
Whilst true for night game. Andy Yosha's webinar on Direct Day game https://www.puatraining.com/mpuau/secre ... mewebinar/ suggests that most girls are not expecting the direct approach in the day and get it so rarely that it's the best way of doing it.

I tend to agree, though just starting my day game adventures, a girl has probably has a number of guys come up to her in the street a weakly go indirect! How many times has she had direct in the day time? That you are prepared to do this though shows to have the confidence, and creates higher value...

...but link you've said with now boosted her value and she is the prize. I haven't enough experiance at this to know, but if you feel like you want to do something about this, a little friendly teasing (aka negging) would be the answer.

Best thing is to try it both ways and see what works for you

peace
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