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| Author: | Boomer [ Wed Nov 18, 2009 2:31 am ] |
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I was at a house party last weekend and there were a lot of people dancing in the large basment. The DJ was great and the people were very into the dancing. I for one dont like going up to girls on the dance floor from behind and start grinding with them. I've noticed that a lot of AFC's will stand around waiting to muster enough courage to do that in the hope that the girl will turn around and hook up with them, that involves no game. i believe that any animal can approach its mate from behind and start humping, from my experience that approach only attracts drunk or slutty girls. I also noticed that many AFC's love to crowd around the walls and talk about how hot the girls are, or sports, i dont care much for that. I also noticed that a lot of really cute girls, shy and wild love to stand around together in a circle blocking other people out, and they analyze the party and aren't dancing i figured they were just shy but after opening sets i kinda came under the impression that they were just waiting for a guy to come to them. so i went near them and i ended up dancing with friends in the middle and having fun which drew people to me and gave me a lot of social status. When i opened this set i walked right in as if they invited me i stood half-facing the AMOG who was with them (although he seemed like an AFC) and the obstacle (her friend) this is what i said Me: Hey guys! i was just wondering if is this the I'm to cool to dance section? This line was a direct challenge, it was also a neg, my tone demonstrated that i was making fun, and the obstacle went along for the ride. as i spoke to them for a little longer ignoring the target but giving her eye contact i was shocked when she said Target: I'm not too cool to dance! after that outburst i immediately negged her on interrupting me and being cocky and i kino'd. i challenged her to dance with me and we had a great time.within minutes, i kissed closed her on the floor number closed her. i kept walking away from her to dance with other people and that led her to follow me around the floor which was awesome! I have tried this line at other times and it hasnt always worked, and girls respond differently each time, i've gotten bf dropped, and even straight rudeness but as my game has gotten better i've been able to handle their responses. nonetheless i think its a great opener and it will make you look like a fun, challenging guy not like the backdoor grinders who have no game Another line that i used that recently worked was in this same setting i approached a girl who looked disinterested in the dancing and was just sitting at the bar. i said to her Me: Hey there why arent you tearing up the dance floor? Target: This isn't really my style, its kinda dirty Me: I couldn't agree more let's try something, Close your eyes. Now imagine the lights were turned on and the music was turned off now open your eyes and look around the room! that line showed her that i'm a deep, thoughtful person and i went on explaining to her that dancing could be fun and i got her to dance with me! i wanted to appear different so i didnt try and kiss her but i number closed her that night and set up a day 2 This is actually my first field report as i only got introduced to game a month ago but Try these out and let me know what you think brothers, i look foward to posting more stuff as my journey continues hahaha!! BOOMER out! |
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| Author: | Lemarc [ Thu Nov 19, 2009 10:46 am ] |
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good post! I love dance floor game and getting out there having fun. I'm a pretty decent dancer, usually better than most of the people on the floor but no professional dancer. Woman usually notice that and by me having fun and not approaching on the dance floor I have made myself Extremely different than most guys and it sparks their curiosity about me. I just see the looks and let the woman come to me. Like attracts like, Since I'm basicly the only guy having fun and woman go out to clubs to have fun it's such a big DHV I don't have to really do much, they usually grind on me or smile and open me with their eyes. |
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| Author: | StreetLight [ Thu Nov 19, 2009 12:27 pm ] |
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I'm not sure that's the right place to say it but ur post reminded me of an opener that led to a kiss close, I was at this party and I had really good energies generally making fun and dancing with ppl, my wing pointed to this 2 girls and said "2 HB10, go open".. we have this rule that if a wing says you to do something u cannot say no.. anyway I came there and forgot my material, so I came and stood near them as thou I'm part of the conversation, my body was directed to them and I put my hand on my chin, they immediately reacted.. so I said "continu as thy I'm not here.. I'm just observing" now I don't know if its from social proof (coz I've been working the whole party, dancing and doing ridiculous stuff all around) but the girls laughed and one of them said to "wow!! Ur amazing" I haven't field tested this opener I just did it once and it worked... |
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| Author: | Z-Wrex [ Thu Nov 19, 2009 6:05 pm ] |
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The easiest way I've found to get women to come to you is to know how to dance a little. You don't need to be spinning on your head a dozen times, just something different than what they are seeing all around them. 99% of the guys there are just grinding on the girls they're with, so you have to show that you have some moves. I study popping/locking styles, and if a song comes on that I can go with I pull a few moves and somebody's paying attention, at the very least, every time. It's even better if you're out with friends who can do the same. Then you have a just for fun dance battle. The trick with that, tho, is to not try to get the crowd involved unless they come to you. Don't call anyone's attention, just have a few buddies make a little room and then you and whoever else wants in go battle for a few minutes. Easiest thing to do then is to take a girl who was watching and ask her to judge. |
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