Whats up Guys?? im Kyle and brand spankin new to the game as of last week. Im a laid back, good lookin 23 year old from Phoenix AZ. I havent really had much practice 'opening' at all and not to be a dick but some (not all!) of the openers i have read on here just sound downright cheesy or lame. Im the kind of guy that tends to 'freeze up'(mind goes blank) around girls, i need some good openers. This is an opener i thought of yesterday that i believe has the potential to be godamn amazing. It just seems to be a win win situation. It could work with 1 girl or a group of girls.
Here goes:
(The approach.. walk up with your best smile and confident voice tone) ''Hi, im ____ nice to meet you!" (after that you can make a comment on a clothing accessory, small neg, etc etc) then say...''Would you like to buy me a drink?
If she says ''YES'' then your Golden, she has obviously already shown interest in you, you have DHV'd her, and you are guaranteed a good 5 minutes (at least) with this girl (s)
If this is a group of girls try to get the 'ugly' one to buy the drink for you, you can then give her a comment ''you know your a very intelligent girl!" (after she agrees to buy you a drink) look at her friends "you guys should take after your friend...shes smart.. yada yada yada'' This will create a little jealousy from the other girls.
If she says ''NO/MAYBE/WHY'' then reply with (DO NOT TRY TO SOUND LIKE A CAR SALESMAN THIS IS KEY) ''you know buying me a drink could potentially be a great investment... (remember to smile) just think about it, if your a good girl/lucky.... i might even buy YOU a drink later, maybe even two. hell i might as well turn out to be one of the coolest guys you'll ever meet!!!'' (get creative here, the key is to spark some interest and convince her that buying you a drink will be good for her)
If this works then your good to go from here. ask her some open ended questions and enjoy your free drink!
If she still says ''NO'' after that then she's probably a bitch and doesnt even deserve a drink from you or anyone else. period!!! how much is a drink these days?? three to seven dollars average come on!!!
If you start stumbling/losing your game remember you can always turn to her, smile and say ''thanks for the investment/drink'' and walk off with your FREE DRINK.... hell she might even follow you if you do that!
I see it as an all around win win situation. Think about it.. the worst that can happen is that she wont buy you a drink, and you waste 25 seconds with her and walk off. If it goes well, which i assume would happen most of the time if you keep it cool, You get a free drink, and your pretty much locked into a 5-10 minute conversation with this girl(s) that has chosen to INVEST in your time.
Like I said im very new to the game, but i will be trying this soon. This is not field tested yet. Let me know how this works and what reactions you get. We can modify it from there. LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU GUYS THINK OF THIS ONE! Now go out there and tear it up!