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Author:  blisterinheat [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 10:59 am ]
Post subject:  HB with bf, can't talk to her, anybody know a way round....
Here is the lowdown:

There is this chick (HB Blonde) who works at a company I deliver to. She works in the back room, and I only deal with front desk, but because it is one of those modern open-plan offices with glass walls etc, you can see right through. I've caught HB Blonde checking me out...

So, I get on well with the guy at the front desk, and so last time I was in, I wrote a brief note: "meet me at such and such at time such and such". He gave it to her - she didn't show. Front-desk guy told me she has a bf.

Any ideas on how to move this situation on?

For those of you who say go and talk to her, that's not an option, unless one time she just happens to be out front when I am there (and I don't like leaving things like this to chance).
Author:  dw3llz [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 11:15 am ]
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she has a bf.
find some1 else.
Author:  strimpboi [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 3:19 pm ]
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Or the front desk guy digs her and didn't give her the note.
Author:  TheJ [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 3:28 pm ]
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I agree with the find somebody else tip.

Put your self in high probability situations. Is this a high probability situation? Hell no.
Author:  Manda Chuva [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 12:20 am ]
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NOOOO; Go challenge youreself and game her;

You : Did you get my note
Hb: what note?
You : Oh man you missed out it was all pretty and it was an invitation for you to tag along with me & my groupies to this magical place lol Never never land too bad maybe next time

see ya and leave her
Author:  dw3llz [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 1:37 am ]
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dude if a guy talks up my chick, i go over and kick his ass. u know she has a bf and respect that game.


pick-up isnt about being able to steal girls from other guys, its about HELPING other guys get girls.
Author:  TonyFerrara [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:01 am ]
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Naw chill, boyfriends are speed bumps not stop signs.
Author:  dw3llz [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:11 am ]
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Naw chill, boyfriends are speed bumps not stop signs.
typical high school. taking women from other guys isn't the point of what we're here to learn and teach. the fact that you're saying stuff like that really shows how new to The Game you are...
Author:  V3nu [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:50 am ]
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Naw chill, boyfriends are speed bumps not stop signs.
typical high school. taking women from other guys isn't the point of what we're here to learn and teach. the fact that you're saying stuff like that really shows how new to The Game you are...
Dude what if you really like her? Like by what you are saying you are going thru life and everytime you find someone you like because she got a bf or something else that is "stopping" you, you will just move on and move on and move on? Every time? Now way!

Personally I think there is no point to the "Taking Her From Her BF" discussion because that's like a discussion about religion, everyone has a different perspective on it and your beliefs and ethics affect your position, so it's an endless discussion....

I would just say decide by yourself if you want to game her even if she has a bf, I would have done it if I find her really attractive you always know there is a chance of making her your friend and meeting her friends ;) :D

Cheers,
Author:  Corey [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 5:07 am ]
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Naw chill, boyfriends are speed bumps not stop signs.
typical high school. taking women from other guys isn't the point of what we're here to learn and teach. the fact that you're saying stuff like that really shows how new to The Game you are...
Yeah, some people are quite childish when it comes to this.
Author:  dw3llz [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 11:12 am ]
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Dude what if you really like her? Like by what you are saying you are going thru life and everytime you find someone you like because she got a bf or something else that is "stopping" you, you will just move on and move on and move on? Every time? Now way!
he said he just met her
Author:  BombshellBrunette [ Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB with bf, can't talk to her, anybody know a way round.
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Front-desk guy told me she has a bf.

Any ideas on how to move this situation on?
USE THE BOYFRIEND DESTROYER ROUTINE...


Well I don't know if this is good for you, but I have found success with it.

HB: I have a boyfriend
You: Man I have only known you for abit and your already telling me your problems.

or a neg I use often

HB: I have a boyfriend
You: Who said I was ever attracted to you in the first place? Why are you telling me you have a boyfriend? You have a "I am too pretty" complex, in which you think ever guy that talks to you wants you sooooo bad. I just wanted you to buy me a drink.

You have to say it in a cocky way in which she will try and think if you were sarcastic or not. This way it gets her off the topic of her boyfriend and focuses it on you and her.
Author:  blisterinheat [ Thu Oct 08, 2009 9:51 am ]
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Cheers for all the input guys.

The problem here isn't that she does or doesn't have a bf. The issue is that she works in a place where I can't speak to her, so I'm trying to work out an alternative way of running game.

As for the whole gaming HB with bf or not, I don't even know if this chick has a bf yet, I've only been told by some other dude she does. So we will cross that bridge when I get to it....
Author:  Millstone [ Thu Oct 08, 2009 5:50 pm ]
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Sounds like a social circle situation, just be the life of the building everytime you walk in there. She'll notice and eventually the law of attraction will work it's magic. Are you friends with anyone there? If not then you better start networking amigo. You may not be able to talk to her, but I guarentee you know someone who can that won't blow up your spot. xD
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