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| Author: | AJ_ATX [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 12:41 am ] |
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I've been aware of PU for a long time, and have used a lot of mid-game routines to boost my virtually non-existent natural game. This has got me more action than normal. However, I seem to have this problem with using opinion-openers that has been around since the beginning of my sarging attempts: I get called out. 50% of the time I use a canned opener, the girl mentions pick-up. This could be b/c I suck at PU,or it could be b/c I live in Austin, and everyone knows about PU, given the first season of The PUA was filmed at all of the places I sarge. Regardless, it's at least 50% of the time. A remaining 40% of the time, I get ignored, or get the girls to roll their eyes at me. 10% of the time it works but I still fuck it up in the long run. I really want some opinions (oh, the irony!) from you guys on the best direct way to open. I have good body language, above average style, good eye contact, and I'm not bad looking. There are so many contradictory thoughts on opening, I don't know if I'm shooting myself in the foot by complimenting her looks (too AFC), or saying hi and telling her my name (TMI, DLV). Either way I hate using canned opinion openers, and would like some new ideas. Thanks for reading this and replying! |
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| Author: | Slywalker [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 2:18 am ] |
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I have never really used canned openers, except for a few occasions when I tried mystery openers just for fun. However, in my personal experience I don't think oppinion openers are very efficient. Lately I have improved a lot on my frame and body language etc and now I find the most effective opener is to casually approach the set and just, "Hey guys(/girls/ladies/whatever) Whats up?" It works great when you do it with a lot of confidence, and usually thats all I need to say to break the ice and after that the conversation is on! |
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| Author: | V3nu [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 2:26 am ] |
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Go read up some of Mehow stuff, he has a mix between canned and direct opener. One of his openers would be (which I often use): "HELLLO!!! You guys seem fun....You guys are the funnest girls I have met....ok in like the last 30 seconds....FTC -> go to attraction Cheers |
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| Author: | AJ_ATX [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:30 am ] |
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Thanks for the advice. Sarged for the first time in a while last night, made a lot of excuses for my AA.  I think I've found a happy medium, gonna try to approach and give her a fashion tip. I'm sure they won't accuse me of being a PUA like that. If I puss out on that, I'll definitely revert to a hybrid of what y'all have suggested, I like them both! |
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| Author: | Johnny B. [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 10:29 am ] |
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Quote: I have never really used canned openers, except for a few occasions when I tried mystery openers just for fun.
Try the opener that mystery invented and after that, play it like this:However, in my personal experience I don't think oppinion openers are very efficient. Lately I have improved a lot on my frame and body language etc and now I find the most effective opener is to casually approach the set and just, "Hey guys(/girls/ladies/whatever) Whats up?" It works great when you do it with a lot of confidence, and usually thats all I need to say to break the ice and after that the conversation is on! PUA: ( Passing the girl/ girls, stop, walk to the girl and correct something she wears and say:" Now your a superstar" ) HB: ?! ouh, well, tha... PUA: Hey, you look kind of familiar ( suprised )! What was the tv show that was going on the CNN channel... something about decorateing.. OH! Now i remember, there was these 3 gay guys who decorated straight guys houses and outfits !? HB: heh, you have the worng person PUA: Well thats too bad. By the way, my name is johnny. [ Johnny B ] |
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| Author: | Kieran Black [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 11:18 pm ] |
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3 newbies: 1. Me: 'hey nice contact lenses' Her: I'm not wearing any. Me: wow really? you have 'really' interesting eyes. lots of girls love talking about their eyes... (or pretty much any excuse to go on about themselves) 2. Me: hey girls I was just wandering if I could get a feminem perspective on something? Girls: Sure. Me: What would you do if a guy came up to you and told you, you were 'Deep fried' Gilrls: (laugh) what? Me: One of my mates has been telling us his newest thing. He'll go up to girls and tell them their deep fried! and its supposed to mean hot and sizzling or something like that... pretty lame right. Girls: I don't think that'll catch on, ( or that would never work on me blah blah blah) 3. Me: Hey that's a really nice dress, i love vintage clothing. Her: No I got it at JJ's Me: Oh right, my sister has a dress that looks just like it but she got hers from a vintage clothes shop etc. (I don't know why but girls really seem to like talking about vintage shit.) |
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