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No she wasn't lying about the phone call you scared her away dude. You came on too strong with the 'your cute' remark and you opened yourself up for an Instant shutdown. You conveyed your intentions too early in the conversation so she summed you up as just another guy hitting on her.

You should never begin with a compliment about aesthetic appearance. Make her work for your approval.

i appraoched a girl today, i said hi you're cute and so on. first thing she said was "i have a bf"

im not a bad looking guy, so i went for the direct opener because i read that girls like confident guys.
what is your experience? are some girls just scared awayt by direct openers?

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im not a bad looking guy, so i went for the direct opener because i read that girls like confident guys.
what is your experience? are some girls just scared awayt by direct openers?

I'm a great looking guy but the only time direct openers such as that seem to work for me is if a girls been giving me IOI's all night or she comes up and opens me, so basically if I already know that she's into me. However if I'm trying to pick 'her' up I find I need to be alot more elusive and entertaining, play the game a little bring her down to my level a bit, i.e. seduce her.

Theres no seduction in telling a girl your cute. You may as well just say 'hey! you make my dick hard, how about it?' you'll get the same results.

Thats just my experience.

Author:	hanspeter2 [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 12:25 am ]
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i appraoched a girl today, i said hi you're cute and so on. first thing she said was "i have a bf" so i tried to downplay it saying "yeah, im not hitting on you though" something like that. and we talked for a while, but she didn't ask for my name when i asked for hers, which i thought was a indicator of disinterest. we talked a little bit mroe and she asked question and stuff, but then she was like "my phone is ringing" which i thought was another indicator of disinterest. so i said "ncie meeting you and left. what do you guys think? was she lying about that phone call?

Author:	Kieran Black [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 1:21 am ]
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No she wasn't lying about the phone call you scared her away dude. You came on too strong with the 'your cute' remark and you opened yourself up for an Instant shutdown. You conveyed your intentions too early in the conversation so she summed you up as just another guy hitting on her. You should never begin with a compliment about aesthetic appearance. Make her work for your approval.

Author:	hanspeter2 [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 1:34 am ]
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im not a bad looking guy, so i went for the direct opener because i read that girls like confident guys. what is your experience? are some girls just scared awayt by direct openers?

Author:	Here4reviews [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 10:47 am ]
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Quote: No she wasn't lying about the phone call you scared her away dude. You came on too strong with the 'your cute' remark and you opened yourself up for an Instant shutdown. You conveyed your intentions too early in the conversation so she summed you up as just another guy hitting on her. You should never begin with a compliment about aesthetic appearance. Make her work for your approval.

Author:	ALPHA LiON [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 11:05 am ]
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Quote: i appraoched a girl today, i said hi you're cute and so on. first thing she said was "i have a bf" I would have replied to that with "And? whats that got to do with (xyz)?" or "Yeah me too anyways I was wondering..." There is always a good chance they don't actually have one.

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Author:	Kieran Black [ Mon Sep 28, 2009 2:36 am ]
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Quote: im not a bad looking guy, so i went for the direct opener because i read that girls like confident guys. what is your experience? are some girls just scared awayt by direct openers? I'm a great looking guy but the only time direct openers such as that seem to work for me is if a girls been giving me IOI's all night or she comes up and opens me, so basically if I already know that she's into me. However if I'm trying to pick 'her' up I find I need to be alot more elusive and entertaining, play the game a little bring her down to my level a bit, i.e. seduce her. Theres no seduction in telling a girl your cute. You may as well just say 'hey! you make my dick hard, how about it?' you'll get the same results. Thats just my experience.

Author:	mofolo [ Tue Sep 29, 2009 6:41 pm ]
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Good looking guys intimidate women more. If you come on too strong + you've got the looks, women assume that your a man whore.

Author:	TheJ [ Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:55 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: im not a bad looking guy, so i went for the direct opener because i read that girls like confident guys. what is your experience? are some girls just scared awayt by direct openers? I'm a great looking guy but the only time direct openers such as that seem to work for me is if a girls been giving me IOI's all night or she comes up and opens me, so basically if I already know that she's into me. However if I'm trying to pick 'her' up I find I need to be alot more elusive and entertaining, play the game a little bring her down to my level a bit, i.e. seduce her. Theres no seduction in telling a girl your cute. You may as well just say 'hey! you make my dick hard, how about it?' you'll get the same results. Thats just my experience. Direct openers work in daygame. They work quite well. You have to be genuine about your comment though, but they work. 'Cute' might not be so good. 'You have a flamboyant stye', 'I just love the way your hair compliments your figure' will work a lot better. Night game (which you seem te be refering to) will not work as well.

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