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Author:  Bedrock [ Tue Jul 21, 2009 5:47 am ]
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What do ya'll think of this opener..

PUA: "Be my friend"
HB: [Answer doesn't matter]
PUA: "Remember the good old days back in 1st grade when you could just approach somebody and ask them to be your friend? And since they never said no you were just instantly friends! Let's bring that trend back."

I'm not sure if it would work or not, of course it very well could if you have the right frame. It doesn't sound AFCish to me, but some of you might disagree with me and thats fine. If I wasn't grounded I would test it out lol :(

This just came to me and it sounds familiar, but I'm not sure if somebody on here already came up with this opener already so if they did I apologize for stealing your thunder lol.

Author:  Don D. Flow [ Tue Jul 21, 2009 5:59 am ]
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I personally believe that is alittle to direct to be a opener. The first saying "Be my friend" is kind of demanding, but at the same time shows you are controlling the situation. I like the second part better, because most people could probably relate to it, I know I could.

Your opener has potential, if you field test it let me know how it goes. I don't think I will, simply because I have a very 'I dont care' kind of attitude.

Don't let me telling you my opinion hold you back. I personally just wouldn't use it, but hey everyone has different styles. If you are comfortable with using it by all means do it, and if you get a negative vibe/rejected just walk away or continue what you were doing.

Author:  Bedrock [ Tue Jul 21, 2009 6:21 am ]
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I personally believe that is alittle to direct to be a opener. The first saying "Be my friend" is kind of demanding, but at the same time shows you are controlling the situation. I like the second part better, because most people could probably relate to it, I know I could.

Your opener has potential, if you field test it let me know how it goes. I don't think I will, simply because I have a very 'I dont care' kind of attitude.

Don't let me telling you my opinion hold you back. I personally just wouldn't use it, but hey everyone has different styles. If you are comfortable with using it by all means do it, and if you get a negative vibe/rejected just walk away or continue what you were doing.
Well all openers don't have to be indirect. You can use direct openers, I just watched a video where Sinn said his current opener is "Hi I thought you were adorable and I had to come over and meet you." I've approached with the same concept saying some shit like "You look really cute so I wanted to come over and see if you have a personality to match it." Its worked.

If she has a negative attitude I'll just go open some other cute girl that is in direct view of her to get her jealous and for some social value, then I'll come back. I jsut wish I didn't get caught drinking saturday night so I could try it out :(

Thanks for your input though bro.

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