Open the Mom, Say compliment her outfit by saying "Wow, I really like the whole thing you've got going with your outfit" or something like that, dont say anything bland like, I like your dress, or, those are nice shoes. Instead say "Wow, those shoes really bring out your energy, you really take care of yourself"
of course the mom should look hot too as the daughter does. If the mom isn't hot, why do you want to date the daughter???
If the mom takes care of herself she will be hot, thats what happens when you take care of yourself. And the mothers love these kind of compliments because they use to be young and bombshells like their daughters, so reminding them that they still got it, makes their day.
Once you compliment the mother, talk about something in the environment or give her a hoop to jump threw like "I have a question, do you know where I can find a starbucks" or "Guys, I cant seem to find tappioca pudding, ANYWHERE! you havn't seen it have you? " or something close in the area.
Then go into your routines, maybe asking for the ladies opinion on your outfit...
once they give you their opinion say...
"Yeah I'm on the way to a coworkers party and shes cooking food. I just here picking up some food, I find it rude to show up anywhere empty handed." DHV
(BUILD ATTRATION WITH SMOOTH BODY LANGUAGE and talk slowly)
"I dont even know what to bring, what would you ladies recommend."
This bought you a couple of more seconds, I'd say about 15-30 tops.
you should throw in some jokes and kino escalate the mom by slighty tapping her shoulder when A joke is dropped. Tapping lightly, just do this once.
Say thank you, and kino the mom by lightly laying the tip of your finger prints to touch the top of her shoulder.
ONLY KINO THE MOM TWICE!
1-DURING THE JOKE DROP OR FUNNY MOMENT
2-DURING THE TIME YOU THANK THEM.
Begin to walk away.
As they walk away they will be coding each other on how good of a performance you had.
Walk three steps than stop.
Say to the girls mainly the mother...
"You know what, you have such a personality you've highjacked my mind, is your daughter the same? (They will laugh and they will look at each other). Well I throw art gallery parties (or your event) every weekend. You dont look like the type that enjoys social events but I'll send you an email with more info."
She will say sure and begin to give you her email address.
Stop her and say, "Ah, you know what, I dont even know your name"
Introduce yourself to the mom, than to the daughter.
Put her name in your phone and ask for the email addy again.
Stop her again as shes spelling her email and say.
"lets start with your number first."
as if you need her number first to add a new contact, to put a email.
Than have her spell her name,
Dont spell it in your phone yourself,
Than give her your phone so she can add her own name and her email.
Done deal.
Finish by asking if they "know where the nearest Starbucks is located"
Tell her that you'll text her than after 5 minutes send a funny text about what you and her mom spoke about. Text again that night and makeup something funny that happened at Starbucks.
follow up with an email of your party later that night, like 11 pm or something, when she will wakeup in the morning and see your email.
WARNING:
YOU MUST TAKE CHARGE, IF YOUR A BEGINNER I WOULDN'T RECOMMEND THIS, I WOULD APPROACH OLDER WOMEN AND COMPLIMENT THEIR STYLE FIRST, OPEN A CONVERSATION ABOUT SOMETHING AROUND, AND KEEP FILLING IN POINTS OF SILENCE UNTIL SHE WALKS AWAY OR YOU WALK AWAY.
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