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| Author: | Buckardi [ Thu Jul 09, 2009 7:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Couple of ideas... |
Ok, the first one is a spin on the old goodie "jealous girlfriend opener". You approach target (by herself is preferred) and say: "Hey can I ask you something? You look like you have had a lot of boyfriends thats why i'm asking (negged!), but my friends girlfriend is blah blah blah... So what would you say to your boyfriend?" I'm just curious about what you guys think about that opening neg. The other thing I was thinking about is a good time constraint technique. Turn your phone's ringer off. when you spot your target, set your alarm for 5 minutes in the future. Then open and say: "Yeah, I can only stay for a couple minutes. My friend is suposed to call me when he's here to pick me up." Then the alarm goes off, you pretend to answer (your phone will be on silent so no one can call you while you pretend to talk) and you take it from there. Thoughts? |
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| Author: | Workaholic [ Thu Jul 09, 2009 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Couple of ideas... |
Quote: The other thing I was thinking about is a good time constraint technique. Turn your phone's ringer off. when you spot your target, set your alarm for 5 minutes in the future. Then open and say:
Just make sure you change your actual alarm after the one night stand or she might choke you with a pillow.
"Yeah, I can only stay for a couple minutes. My friend is suposed to call me when he's here to pick me up." Then the alarm goes off, you pretend to answer (your phone will be on silent so no one can call you while you pretend to talk) and you take it from there. |
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| Author: | Ethan Hewitt [ Tue Jul 14, 2009 1:44 pm ] |
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Not bad. But be warned saying to a girl that she looks like she's had a lot of boyfriends might come across the wrong way. I think you're good with saying 'Hey guys, you look like experts, I need your opinion on something. If you want to neg, just make sure it's playful and leave no time for her to respond, similar to what you did with yours which is what I liked about it's use. Just not sure if I'd choose to neg that early on. I'd give a neg or two after the opener in A2/A3. |
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| Author: | Buckardi [ Thu Jul 16, 2009 2:16 am ] |
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thats what I wasn't sure on. The idea that I had with negging early on (in the opener) is cuz i'm thinking that it would be an immediate IOD so she dosn't feel threatend or like im hitting on her. That might come across to hard though, but it might work with the right smile and delivery. |
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| Author: | AFCJet [ Fri Jul 17, 2009 12:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Couple of ideas... |
Quote: The other thing I was thinking about is a good time constraint technique. Turn your phone's ringer off. when you spot your target, set your alarm for 5 minutes in the future. Then open and say: "Yeah, I can only stay for a couple minutes. My friend is suposed to call me when he's here to pick me up." Then the alarm goes off, you pretend to answer (your phone will be on silent so no one can call you while you pretend to talk) and you take it from there. Thoughts? I guess I don't really see the advantage of that as oppose to just saying you have to go back to your friends who are in the club/bar and that you can only stay for 2 mins. (2 minutes never really means 2 minutes anyway). You could see how long the conversation lasts and leave when it's dying down. Then look at your watch or phone to see how long you were in there for. I could be completely off on what you're trying to say, but that's just what I got from it. |
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