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| Author: | Roobosh [ Mon May 04, 2009 3:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Easy Opening... |
The easiest way to open a group of girls is to simply be loud and funny with your friends and somehow bring them into a joke, i do this alot by mistake when i am out and about. If you concentrate on having fun you will draw lots of attention to you which is good and it shows you are a fun person to be around, it is positive attention seeking. by bringing a girl in on a joke you dont have to worry about following up an opener simce if you portrayed yourself as alpha bedfore you will already have attraction and so she will keep the convosation going. cant think of any examples right now but ill get back to you on this when i have more time. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Mon May 04, 2009 5:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Easy Opening... |
Quote: The easiest way to open a group of girls is to simply be loud and funny with your friends and somehow bring them into a joke, i do this alot by mistake when i am out and about.
Rooboosh,If you concentrate on having fun you will draw lots of attention to you which is good and it shows you are a fun person to be around, it is positive attention seeking. by bringing a girl in on a joke you dont have to worry about following up an opener simce if you portrayed yourself as alpha bedfore you will already have attraction and so she will keep the convosation going. cant think of any examples right now but ill get back to you on this when i have more time. I will agree with this but for different reasons. Yes, when you are having FUN girls want and desire to be around you. You can completely screw everything up in the "game" aspect and still get the girl if you are genuinely having FUN and let them share in that emotion. I don't agree that just joking with friends qualifies as Alpha Male behaviour. She doesn't always keep the conversation going, this is not a constant. You have to continue the "FUN" frame. You can't just have one moment of fun get the girl over and let all the fun die out, cause she is going to leave. Anyways, I agree that FUN is a huge element of game, and focusing on just having fun is great advise. Jon |
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| Author: | RuleBreaker [ Tue May 05, 2009 6:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Fun... |
Rooboosh, I will agree with this but for different reasons. Yes, when you are having FUN girls want and desire to be around you. You can completely screw everything up in the "game" aspect and still get the girl if you are genuinely having FUN and let them share in that emotion. I don't agree that just joking with friends qualifies as Alpha Male behaviour. She doesn't always keep the conversation going, this is not a constant. You have to continue the "FUN" frame. You can't just have one moment of fun get the girl over and let all the fun die out, cause she is going to leave. I agree with JSmooth. Fun is a big attention grabber and a solid start at showing HV, but I can't tell you how many times I've just seen the fun guy get either friend zoned or leave without a number. Think of how many fun guys there are at bars, just about every set I see has one by the time I get there, and where I'm from many of them go out with them regularly. The difference between the guy who is just funny and the funny guy with sets is that the funny guys with sets probably has game...that or he's just friends with the girls he goes out with. We have to remember that the pickup artist is the EXCEPTION TO THE RULE. We're the guy that's simultaneously fun and intriguing, who likes to lead the conversation yet is still ok with pauses in the conversation or leaving the spotlight. We're the guy that uses fun to our advantage and then uses seduction tactics to land the catch, not luck. I think fun is good, but it needs to be one step on the staircase to closing. Breaker |
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