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Opening with women who are sending you clear signals
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Author:  VacuumEnergy [ Sat Apr 25, 2009 7:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Opening with women who are sending you clear signals
Just curious to know, what kind of openers do you use when a woman is giving you clear signals like

- repeatedly bumping her back against yours while talking to her friend
- trying to make eye contact across the room
- dancing and repeatedly brushing against you while you are just standing by the dance floor drinking your beer

In all of these three cases, I struggle trying to come up with something that would be cocky/funny and not obvious.
Author:  Jaybot [ Sat Apr 25, 2009 7:37 pm ]
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Most of my game is based on forcing IOIs and warm approaches, usually I can get away with a "hey hows it going?", "I think you are cute so figured I'd say hi" or " Hi I'm ... "
Author:  nitrogen [ Thu Apr 30, 2009 11:41 am ]
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just "hi" will do here..trust me...clearly she's interested so a canned opener isnt necessary..

cocky/funny in this situation?? ------> Did you just grab my bum??

If you think she's checking you out from across the room. Poke your tongue out at her. If she's cracks up. YOu got yourself an IOI. Again...just walk over and say Hi.

chances are she's just as nervous.
Author:  kanaansea [ Thu Apr 30, 2009 5:08 pm ]
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When a woman is obviously sending you these signals, she wants you to say something, anything! My thoughts run in line with those posted in reply to you as well. I think that your natural game is your best bet. Go up to her, be fun and playful! The key is not to make her feel that she is put on the spot and intimidated by the fact you noticed. Yet in the sense she is going to immediately laugh and smile and feel all of sudden more luminiscent being near you while you may be givin' her the business.

In certain situations don't always over think, just be you and do! This is one! :D
Author:  Gifted1ne [ Thu Apr 30, 2009 8:39 pm ]
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What I have been doing lately when I notice a girl looking at me ill wave and smile at them next time I see her look up at me. If I get a smile or a wave ill head over and just say hey hows it going and just flow from there. Or you can just say its impolite to stare at someone didnt your parents teach you manners C/F, and go from there.
Author:  manman [ Sun May 10, 2009 1:10 am ]
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Well, basically your saying that she already likes you. Ok, well It happens to me all the time. what I usually do is i smile and say something like "your viscious" , or "your direct" something along those lines. It kinda shows that you Are confident, cause you already know she wants you, and your situationally aware of whats going on, It's a special connection only the two of you have.
Author:  JohnyZulu [ Sun May 10, 2009 3:38 am ]
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A good way to open her whole set when she dances into or bumps into you is to react really loudly like she hurt you, and then be like "Jesus, do you work out? My god..." then you turn to her friends and say "Do you bring this one along as a body guard, or just go around beating people up for no reason?" Usually they will all laugh, you have already disqualified yourself, negged the girl, and the girl you want to open will be giving you kino trying to qualify herself as more than a clumsy girl who hurt you, asking if you are okay and saying how sorry she is... the set is now open.

Remember, they will probably open easily because she wants to talk to you. Any of the advice that has been posted in this thread could work. It's not what you say, its how you say it... and in this case that might not even be true. She wants you to open, so... SAY ANYTHING!
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