Just to clear on something I just working on getting rid of approach anxiety. I wasnt to serous about this pick up but just had a feeling there was something i could do using the method i used.
Thanks for the advice.
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| Author: | Lightin' [ Sat Mar 21, 2009 2:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need help with failed Pick up |
I was standing in line at a Barn and Nobles coffee shop at around 3:30 pm today. There was this cute cashier so i stood in line with only one person ahead of me in line. She rang me up for some lemon aid and then i opened. The convo went like this word for word. Me- Hey let me ask you a quick question. Me and my friends were just having a debate and i feel i really got to get a woman's opinion on this. Hb- Ok Me- Do you feel guys that do Muay Thai are sexier then guys that don't? HB- Wait whats Muay Thai? Me- The "art of 8 limbs". its Thai boxing. Hb- Yeah defiantly. Me- Oh alright. *pause* Listen im a white belt Muai Thai fighter and i was just wondering if you wanted to got play some billiards with me after you get out of work? Hb-i have a boyfriend me- oh thats fine i wasnt asking your boyfriend out i was asking you out. Hb- but wouldnt that be wrong? me- i dont know i dont have a boyfriend Hb- *speachless* Me- *froze up* never mind. *walked away* Now here's were i think i messed up: instead of walking away i should have negged her and then i should of asked her out again. I felt i was being persistent but not persistent enough... but i could be wrong. Any help on this manner would be greatly appreciated. |
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| Author: | Fedster [ Sat Mar 21, 2009 2:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help with failed Pick up |
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Me- Hey let me ask you a quick question. Me and my friends were just having a debate and i feel i really got to get a woman's opinion on this.
Openers should NOT be yes/no questions. And really, girls aren't that impressed with your skills of kicking ass.
Hb- Ok Me- Do you feel guys that do Muay Thai are sexier then guys that don't? Quote:
HB- Wait whats Muay Thai?
Wait, what? You just asked her like that out of the blue? Why even bother with the opener?Me- The "art of 8 limbs". its Thai boxing. Hb- Yeah defiantly. Me- Oh alright. *pause* Listen im a white belt Muai Thai fighter and i was just wondering if you wanted to got play some billiards with me after you get out of work? Look, if you are going to get a girl to come to a date, she has to be comfortable around you first. My advice to you would be to read up on building rapport/comfort. THEN you can ask her out! Quote:
Hb-i have a boyfriend
Read: I'm not interested. No matter what you say from this point on will turn this around. You blew the set, you're making me uncomfortable, please leave.
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felt i was being persistent but not persistent enough... but i could be wrong.
If you had been persisting more she would have called security..
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| Author: | Lightin' [ Sat Mar 21, 2009 2:59 am ] |
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Just to clear on something I just working on getting rid of approach anxiety. I wasnt to serous about this pick up but just had a feeling there was something i could do using the method i used. Thanks for the advice.
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| Author: | phantomxrider [ Sat Mar 21, 2009 3:28 am ] |
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shoulda used some smart alecky facial expressions, like a raised eebrow or a little smirk. helps with me. it usually happens like this: hb: man, you are persistent arent you (grin) me: wouldnt you say its worth it? hb: maybe... by then she's sunk. |
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