Hey,
this might sound a little strange but here goes my little problem: each week I go to an after work party. Last week a new waitress started working there and I really would like to approach and open. So, no big deal really you think, right? Well, the problem is a little different. The place is very classy, the people are hand-picked and invited directly each week. So I can't mess it up or I will not be invited anymore. Also it's pretty crowded (although it's a lounge bar) so it tends to be hard to open.
But the main problem is: I can't go alone. I got my game in check usually but there are colleagues with me. I need to open fast and funny and if I get turned down it has to look natural.
She is getting hit on all the time and she turns everyone down as far as I have seen (being nice of course because she is a waitress). Even if she has a boyfriend or whatever, I'd rather find out directly.
So does anyone have a good opener for this occasion? She is nice, a HB9 but the situation sucks.
If I have a good opener, the rest is no big deal as I know how to get the rest done
Any input or help appreciated.
Cheers,
PhilStar